- Well I guess I’ll start ova since I was a bit hard and a lot of ppl took it to heart., but like they say a hot dog will holla.
- I write when I’m bored and think a lot when I’m by myself.
- So first off I’m I work 2 jobs and both of them require me to travel which also means I work a lot and stay on my grind.
- if you want a man that gives u a lot of time then find you a man w/o a job or get you a man that’s comfortable where he is in life.
- I’ve learned that when your trying to become successful there is little time to chill. I also learned that I’m never comfortable where I am in reaching my goal. I stay striving to reach another goal or level.
- If your not trying to enlighten, motivate, push me to another level or not trying to change your mindset then your just a pastime.
- Ladies if your grown son that lives with you and you are taking care of him then that’s your man. Don’t fix your mouth and say you not taking care of a grown man. As a matter of fact it probably why you can’t find or keep a man. First of all it’s a turn off to a man.
- Don’t expect more than you can give, even though most men will accept a women without certain things yea it’s a double standard
- Word to the wise, if you get a good man treated like a good man, not like a man your use to getting or having. (Mike drop that was amazing)
- Top turn off to real men not real men-child’s
- Thinking you are the man (no matter how much you make or got)
- You can’t hold your own in any situation. (Not being able to stand on your own)
- You taking care of a grown as man-child (ie son, nephew or whateva)
- House or dwelling is filthy
- Holding on to past relationship baggage
- Drama or attitudes (my favorite deal breaker)
- clingy or don’t give a man his space when needed not when you need it.
- Verbalizing you don’t need a man.
- most of y’all probably go thru a lot of stuff if you wasn’t in a rush to have a relationship or you didn’t ignore the red flags in the beginning.
- Dont ask for honesty and want someone to be upfront if you know you really can’t handle it. Be careful what you ask for you just might get it.
- it’s funny you try to control a man but can’t control your kids, and you spend money, feed them,!cloth them, provide shelter for them & break your neck to get them what they want wow is all I can say.
- Damn I did it again I hurt ppl feelings again, damn, oh well on to the next.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Let if flo. If your intimidated by my looks then take your weak a$$ on. I like strong women, that are open minded and has a sense of humor.