RubyintheRust: Where there is love, there is life!
Non-Smoker with Athletic body type
Santa barbara, California
61 year old Female, 5' 7" (170cm), Non-religious
Caucasian, Cancer
RubyintheRust is looking for a relationship.
Bachelors Degree

I am Seeking a Man For Long Term
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry View her chemistry results
Do you drink? No Do you want children? Does not want children
Marital Status Divorced Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Blond(e) Eye Color Blue
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? All my kids are over 18
Longest Relationship Over 10 years How ambitious are you? Somewhat Ambitious
Pets Cat  

About Me
I’m fun, easy going, humorous, sincere and honest. I can speak just as well from my heart as I can my mind. I have a very wide range of interests and enjoy meeting new people. Life is about having fun and learning. I like to look at the bright side of things and think life is meant to enjoy. I am optimistic and forgiving. I am fiercely loyal to my family and friends. I'm not always politically correct, but am very passionate about equality and justice. I know I can't save the I strive to make life the very best it can be. I’m a strong believer in the power of our own minds and attitudes. I know how to relax and enjoy life while still taking my commitments seriously. I appreciate people who take responsibility for their own happiness, and for their own decisions and the results of those decisions.

Staying in shape is important for the quality of my life. I prefer to be outdoors walking/hiking/biking, but these days I’m grateful for the gym. I have TV, but no cable. What I do have is Netflix. I’m learning to love the unfamiliar art of curling up on the couch with popcorn and streaming good movies. I’m sure you have some “must see” movies that you need to turn me on to. I listen to lots of music; I love the old rock ‘n roll, but I also throw in a good mix of jazz, blues, and alternative. I love to dance - one of the best natural highs! Feeling and swaying to the music together can be very romantic. I am usually the blue jean or cut-offs kind o' gal, but I like to dress up and feel "girly" too. I am very youthful for my age - and assume you are too. My age is correct and photos are current.

What I’m looking for in a man? Attitude. It is something that a partner cannot change. Chemistry is vital, and humor is mandatory. If you don't laugh easily, you can't love well. I am looking for someone who is loyal to their word and a person that laughs more than complains. A person that can go through a terrible experience and say that "I know there is something good in this that I can learn and be thankful for". But as fun as life is, we all want that special connection that makes everything so much better. It is a meeting of the souls – you know that you are a better person and that life is better when that very special person is sharing with you. Shared meaning, profound trust, admiration, respect; these define love.

Although I don't drink, I don't mind if my partner does in long as it is not something he "needs" to have fun or feel sexy. I lack both enzymes to process alcohol so it makes me very sick. This has always been and always will be. I have learned many other ways of feeling great, mellow, and have lots of fun!

I don't believe that I can "look" for a long term relationship - I'm looking for a good man. When it is right, the long term relationship develops. Growing in love is like a long conversation, done right it seems the conversation does not last long enough.

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