*** My apologies in advance if I step on toes here. Now, onward ... ***
I'm real and not about to pretend I'm here looking for the "one" who will be with me for the rest of my life, although that is the ultimate goal.
I began here 4 years ago looking for that, but came to realize that I want to merely spend time with some who wants to spend time and fun experiences with me because we're friends. After that we can get "serious".
For me, finding the "one" is like shooting spit wads at the moon. It's just not likely to happen anytime soon, at least not here on POF. I'm not saying it's impossible, don't get me wrong.
While here, I promise to have real conversations with anyone who is interested in that. I also promise not to hit anyone over the head with dogma, religion or political rhetoric. Like I said, real.
About me's I guess I should say:
- Laid Back
- Non Judgmental
- Plays Guitar / Sings
- Self Employed Entrepreneur
- I'm a Counselor and Master Coach
- Likes People Watching
- Will go to Church with you on first "date"
- Likes to laugh, love, and enjoy life
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Dating is not about finding a partner or spouse. It's about people doing things together and sharing the enjoyment from that while building a relationship.
That's what I want to do. I value relationships.
Message me if you are interested in that.
What really irks me is that almost every person I have been in chat with on this site is not interested in doing anything other than saying hi and staying at a distance. If that's you, I don't know why you are here. In order to make a new friend, you have to chat a little. In order to make an omelet, you have to break a few eggs...
I'm going to stop the negative right there because I like being positive much better. This site has much potential for those who really want to be friends. If that's you, I'm interested. Period.
I do not have the upgrade so you will have to say "hi" if you read something that interests you.
"Be excellent to each other."
-Bill & Ted