I think I am giving this site one more week and then hiding profile, If I commit to something I follow through or let you know I cant. . I get I have a complicated life but I am still a person :.
Ok. I have a daughter with cancer. We are awaiting results if treatments worked. Trying to get back into dating but if anyone wants to meet me ,talk to me, even knowing this, I don't shut my phone off but normally In bed by 9 and up by 5. Sleep is much needed. I know I a n the poster child of who not to date, lol. But I'm honest :) prefer to date men who live local. If we meet and don't click, be honest why, that helps us grow. I try and be honest... expect the same..... wouldn't you prefer truth instead of lies?
Trying to update my photos but living in a dark cave ( so it seems) and being a pale redhead....it's iffy at best.... cell phone pics suck...atleast for me :) Camera broke, not because of me, lol, My red hair varies, but I still look the same :) 3 of my pics are recent.. I have never claimed to be photogenic... But I had to put the cell phone ones on here that I don't love so men don't think that I am ready for a night out all the time, :) I am a size 10 with curves.... if that is a deal breaker for you, move on...
I like motorcycles ( just bought my first used motorcycle and have been out practicing everyday ) and humor and country music. I seem to date men that are too busy or don't want a relationship. I work a lot and can get kind of stressed out with it, but want a man who has time and the inclination to spend time together. I have two kids, 15 and 21 They are totally awesome. :)
I love to read fbi thrillers, listen to music and just chill.
When I go out I prefer biker dive bars with live music and down to earth peeps.
I can be the quiet one or the wild one....you never know .
I like most music, country and top 40 are my fav's.
My friends think I am loyal and honest. I try not to BS anyone.
I like taller men, 6 ft and over is nice but have dated shorter., I like big arms and tattoos... but have dated skinny guys with no tattoos......
I just saw this quote from Marilyn Monroe... think this describes me to a tee!!!
" I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes. I'm outta control at times, a little hard to handle, but if you cant handle me at my worst, then you sure don't deserve me at my best"
I love that!!! May turn a few men off, but heck, at least you know how I am, lol.
On trying to be a decent person. we all email others who we find attractive, and lets face it, a lot of pics are cell phone pics, so not great, so If the pic is ok but the email has personality, I may respond,,, I used to try and respond to any emails , parents raised me not to be rude.( well, they tried ateast, lol ) If any man finds me attractive, I am a happy camper.... thank you, If I don't respond....win me over with personality :)...if not, thank you for your interest and if I like you hopefully you think I have a smidgeon of a personality.....if I am tired.....pissed, overworked, well.... lets talk tomorrow : ).... and to be fair to you men..... I am putting this on here wearing no makeup and a robe....NEVER post that pic, :)
On that note... seems all Fl. men love the beach, hunt, fish, work out , want a physically fit woman .....dang it people... :} I work 55 hours a week, drive an hour a day, have 2 kids and bills..... I can be that woman if I wasn't self sufficient......I am just being a smart ass/ realistic about this :) Why I love motorcycles and bands that remind you life has its pleasures but we don't always have to have the same ones to enjoy life
I make a lot of men mad because I am true to me. I'm not a phone person before meeting. Face time means more.. if u are under.45 please don't bother. I'm not a cougar.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Welllll, all first dates seem to be, meet for a quick drink and make sure neither person wants to run, so guess we can stick with that.... now the second date..... it needs to be a "real" date :) ya know, boy comes to girls house n picks her up, takes her out... does not tell her she can have one drink and no appetizer and nothing expensive ( yes, I have been on this date, lol )and brings girl home without the cops being called.... ( n yes, I have had to consider doing this as well ) sounds so easy in theory!!!