Let's just go out for fun and see where it goes from there. Although I am more serious about wanting a relationship than before, it is not my primary focus... chemistry happens and can't be forced.
My friends say I am social, smart and a good listener. That's for you to decide.
I love to travel and have been to 48 of our 50 beautiful states, 12 countries, countless islands and on 3 continents. Although I will probably never get the chance to see every country, I would like to go to all of the continents, well, maybe not Antartica, too cold.
I do not use the"meet me" feature. I would much rather someone contact me and have something of substance to say. Because I get a lot of email and know what I am seeking, I don't always respond. If I do respond , you have piqued my interest. You should be confident enough to ask me out. I am not looking for a penpal. ;) Want to know more? Just ask.
PS (to you young 20somethings that keep writing me) I am totally flattered by your interest but have a son in your age group. It's just not going to happen. :)
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Coffee...dinner... I will leave that up to you. Being spontaneous, if free I am the type that will just get up and go if asked, so please don't ask unless you mean it.