single mom, hard working, enjoys spending time with my family. I enjoy anight on the town once in a while, I'd rather hang out with my gang.Looking for someone to talk to, when I have the extra time. I enjoy good music, and I am a very good dancer, for those who can keep up! I love music of all types, but latley I really enjoy good Christian pop. I feel comfort there! I am not into one night stands, I think more of myself and of you if that matters! I want a man that stands beside me;not infront of or behind me! I have an education and I have earned everything that has come my way! Definately not spoiled, but may like to be someday by the right person! I am an honest but very compassionate person and I truly love people and would do anything for anyone! But at this point in my life, I am ready for something real back! I feel I deserve it!
12-02-13. I'm really starting to wonder what all the rush is in getting in a relationship? I have jumped in too fast before and it has been very painful! I want to learn from my mistakes, learn the person, everything about the person, before I promise them my world. I am not a perfect person and I have made some pretty dumb mistakes, therefore, I am not interested in making them again! Definition of Insanity! Three years ago, I fell in love for real for the first time completely and completely got my heart broke. I found myself trying to replace that person and bandaide my pain with another person! It doesn't work. It's over three years later and it still hurts, but I'm not going to jump into another relationship and hurt someone else just to quick fix me. Obviously, I do not want to spend the rest of my life alone, I do however want to spend it with the one that was created for me. Someone who can handle the not so great things about me as well as the many great things about me. I believe we all deserve the desires of our hearts, we just need to recognize and stop settling for fear that we will be alone forever! I am truly flattered by the many responses I have recieved on this site, and at times a little horrified. Like I said, we are not all created for each other, just that very special certain one created by an awesome God who know's us exact and the desires of our hearts! I'm a very hopeless romantic and I too want to find true love, because true love is the only kind that lasts. It is a gift, a lifetime of up's and downs, it is so strong that even when you want to run from the other person, you stick it out, because that other person deserves you even on the awful days. True love is not for the weak selfish, that all of us can be, but the dig down deep in yourself in the hard times and see what your made of. Again, I want a man to stand beside me, not infront of behind me, but beside me in life for ever how long God gives us! I wish everyone the desires of their hearts and too hope to find mine! God bless and be brave! :-) Happy fishing!
Update 10/03/17. If you want to trash talk, take it somewhere else. It's not welcome here. Surprise, surprise...I don't want to see your private parts and I don't want disgusting messages sent to me. I am a lady and I have self respect. Life is hard enough as it is. Please tell me, there are some decent respectful guys out there. I can do bad all by myself. I don't want to be your mama, I don't want to take care of you. I want something mutual. I give, you give. I'm tired, and like the rest of the world... I'm broken. Would like a partner that wants to work together and fix each other's broken pieces. Not one that is so proud that refuse to recognize their insecurities and imperfections. No one gets this age, without war wounds. Quit looking for perfect and start looking for the perfect combination. Pretty sure one person can't carry the weight of 2. Sorry for the rant, but I have to much to offer to continue the insanity pattern. God bless and happy fishing!!!!
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
would love to go to the landing expeirence a nice walk, time to talk, no strings attached. I'm up for some good music, anything in the arts I love! I love a nice day at the lake! Yum I love the sun! :) Just something respectful! I am too old for games and too young to not have a life! I want good clean fun, without the pressures that come with it!