First let me state that if you act, think, dress and speak like today's average man, I will not be attracted to you at all. I can only have the same conversations, and hear the same ideas and opinions so many times, and I met my quota long ago. lol :)
I am what some people call a new age old fashion woman. Lol I’m old fashion in the frontier days sense. I enjoy working with my hands, being self sufficient, I prefer to make things from scratch, working with the land, and I’d rather fix it then get a new one. I’m new age because gender roles mean very little to me, and equality is important. Being male or female doesn’t stop people from being who they are on the inside, and those innate qualities are more valuable to me. I’m also non-religious for similar reasons. I believe there is something bigger than us, but I don't like to put a label on it. Any label mankind comes up with, seems really insufficient.
I would like to meet a completely single, completely heterosexual man that enjoys the outdoors, is handy, takes care of himself, and is grounded and reliable. I like men that find intellectual pursuits just as valuable as physical ones. I like men that can easily express themselves using words, and have no problem accessing their emotions when appropriate. My preference is men without children, or grown children. I do not have any children, and would like time with my partner, so that we can focus on each other. When you have kids, they will always come first, which is as it should be..… but understand, I am not in the same position.
There are many people on this site, for a multitude of reasons. I’m here to meet someone that I can connect with on a deep level, and that wants to go out and make memories. Of course we all know that everyone is not honest about who they are or what they want, and I act accordingly.
There are a few people that I will absolutely not respond to. If I read your profile, and there is no real information, I will assume you are not here for the same reason as me. If your fields have “ask”, or a nonsensical, run-on sentence, then I can’t be bothered to try either lol. People that are here for the same or similar reasons as me usually put some effort into their profile.
Now with this being a dating site, pictures are also very important. A couple of pics (with no full body shots), a bunch of memes and 1-2 real pics, signals to me that you are a catfish, or don’t like the way you look. Only your body and/or your penis showing, suggests to me that you are fast (easy/community****, or a catfish.
If you are currently in jail, please move on.
If you are too busy for active dating, please move on.
If you have something to sell or promote, I'm not interested.
I'm not looking for pen pal or a "friend". If you don't want to go out (not at your house), please move on.
If you've been so hurt in the past, that you can't participate in the dating and mating process, please move on.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I'm really open on what to do on a first date as long as it's not the same ole, same ole; like dinner and a movie. Originality is sexy!