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somewhatJaded14U: Lets call selfies what they really are,,, alonies!
Non-Smoker with Average body type
Newport, North Carolina
58 year old Male, 5' 11" (180cm), Non-religious
Caucasian, Scorpio
somewhatJaded14U is looking for a relationship.
Some college
self employed/commercial Real Estate

Nov. 27, 2o18. Lil fire accident, might keep it this way for a while

I am Seeking a Woman For Dating
Needs Test View his relationship needs Chemistry View his chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Undecided/Open
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Bald Eye Color Blue
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? No
Longest Relationship Over 5 years How ambitious are you? Ambitious
Pets Dog Second Language Other

About David
If you do not possess a good sense of humor,turn back now!

I see a lot of ladies here who say they want romance. So are you more into the Nickolas Sparks kind of (mushy) Romance or the Richard Haliburton type of romance,{think reckless abandon!}? I am more of a Haliburton guy. I hope this helps some of you . :)

Im lookin for ONE best female friend and maybe,down the road some,a lover and companion!! Some one who can speak her mind yet at the same time can trust my actions and how I behave. I believe in living by example . If you DON'T want a man who opens the door for you,offers to help you should you need it or is supportive of you in your endeavors and treats you as his #1(his queen) then I am absolutely NOT the guy for you...

You can write me and ask anything. I am strait forward and blunt,at times,but above all I will not lie to you.
I have a beard,its red and grey. Its been real long before,took it off for different reasons- fire(yeah it happens,I like a good camp/bon fire) and skin cancer scares! May be persuaded to trim it,maybe... I am pretty rough around the edges but I can clean up fairly well! EDIT: I am considering trimming it a LOT now-a-days as its now long enough to get caught up in things, like an electric drill! That was a bad day...EDIT2: beard is considerably shorter now, think lil more than an inch. The puppy convinced me. Nope dont have a current pic, dont really care to at the moment either!

I ride. Its my preferred method of travel,Im on my bike unless it (job/family) requires something more than what my bikes can carry. It doesn't matter if you ride your own or on the back if you are into bikes we will probably get along fine! There is a lot more to me than just motorcycles though. And just as an FYI, I am not in an MC. EDIT; Since getting my puppy I don't get to ride near as often as I want! No I'm not going to train this one to stand on the tank and go with me, did that with my last Lab but eventually they just get to big to fit! Instead I hope to make him a kayak dog or something along those lines.

One other thing,probably the most important thing,I require a STRONG mental connection with my girlfriend to have any kind of good relationship with her. I'm not talking about just "being in love" although this is a big part of it. It means she has to let me in her head and heart and by the same standards I let her into mine! Ultimately there will be no secrets between us and 100 percent honesty and trust at all times as well (I know that seems like a pipe dream but it can happen,you just have to want it) . Most people call this "taking the time to get to know a person", I believe in the concept of dating to get to know some one. And just to clarify something that got pointed out to me a while back,my intent says "I want to date but nothing serious"(I changed it to 'actively seeking' because well,because I can). To me this means I want to take the time to get to know you and you me. It does not (at least as far as Im concerned) mean I am just looking for a hook-up! lol! Yeah sex is wonderful an all that but as I mentioned above there needs to be a strong mental connection.

I am not a possessive or jealous man. I rarely even get angry. I have been told I have an even temperment,I'm not sure if that was an insult or not. I don't read between the lines very well either.

I generally like to meet sooner rather than later. I am ruff around the edges and a lot of women seem to be turned off by it,lol,so meeting soon is preferred instead of getting to know someone (by phone [I don't text much] and internet) and finding an attraction to said person without fully knowing what we look like until we finally meet and then BAM! :p . . EDIT; since trimming the beard and keeping it at about 2inches I've been told I don't look like the hermit that lives in the woods anymore. I think that was a complement,not sure though...

I have been on here a couple times and usually I just spend my time in the forums. There is good stuff in there if you take the time. Its probably the best way to get an idea of someone (so to speak,by reading their answers. Or better yet,their posts!). Here is a link to the forums! If you havent found them yet yourself,its deffinately worth the look.

There are a lot more things I am interested in and active with than I care to list here,see my interests list (but please dont take it so literally!). What I have written so far is small in comparison but what I have said,so far,is the stuff some women see as a turn off. A deal breaker,So I like to just put this all out there first! If you are open minded enough to see your way past that ,or have questions about something you may not understand SPEAK UP, (Making assumptions without fully knowing is just plain stupid.) and still are interested and I havent messaged you already,feel free to contact me or favorite me if you are the shy type.

What I have learned on this site is most women will not respond to my (obviously) poor attempts at breaking the ice,LOL,so I rarely initiate messages,I look I just don't write,unless there is more than just one word or line in your about me section (writing -Just Ask- will not get my interest at all) and we have similar interests in common or we become a "mutual match" on the meet me feature. Sometimes I will write a brief message because of something you have in your profile,or if you favorited me or even viewed my profile-- not shy but it really sucks when ya go to write a thoughtful message and it gets bounced out ------ Sometimes I favorite one or 2 of ya'll because your settings don't allow me to write you,if you find yourself favorited you can always delete it though..Or better yet write me,worse you can say is you are not interested!No harm no foul. ----- If you are interested or most likely are curious about something I wrote feel free to ask. Im not shy or scared! ;)

"Ultimately seeking a low maintenance gal that doesn't mind me treating her like a high maintenance gal from time to time!" - Dave

I keep thinking I need to make this mess a little shorter......

Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
see my "interests" list, I am going to bring up some of your interests.... or make a suggestion. Conversation should be a 2 way thing....

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