Silent_Thoughts: Wow. (Was previously=> Please, Be Serious.)
Non-Smoker with Athletic body type
Springfield, Vermont
61 year old Male, 5' 9" (175cm), Non-religious
Caucasian, Capricorn
Silent_Thoughts isn't seeking a relationship or any kind of commitment.
Bachelors Degree
Free Thinker
horse & farm caretaker, technician and fix-it guy

me & Tyler

I am Seeking a Woman For Friends
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry Not Completed
Do you drink? No Do you want children? Undecided/Open
Marital Status Not Single/Not Looking Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Black Eye Color Hazel
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? No
Longest Relationship Over 7 years How ambitious are you? Ambitious
Pets No Pets  

About mark
As of this month (6/14) I am actively involved with someone I actually met via this site - much to my amazement !!

As a result of that miraculous development my message to others here is:
This meeting-via-internut stuff CAN work - but it MAY take a very long time.
(After all if it works for someone quite as odd as myself it must be able to work more easily for someone who is LESS odd, right ?!?)

*******************Unedited previous text follows********************
I know what I've been wanting, and it seems so very simple too=> a good relationship with a good mate.

So I've placed my info where it may be seen and stayed open for someone who also wants this, so we can find one another & meet
with the desire to be happy together AND to stay together.

Seems to me that this hasn't happened yet simply because something like 99% of the folks who use sites like this one are not serious.
They do this as an amusement, or because someone else suggested it or dared them to do it.
But really - such folks aren't serious about it; it is seen as just another fun online game and it's not real at all.

So, how do folks meet one another for REAL anymore then - can anyone answer this for me ?!?

We all know the common answers are not THE answer - like at work, at the store, walking down the street, at church, etc., etc...
(And there was no mention of bars/clubs because real relationships seldom start with an alcohol-laden haze.)

That seems to pretty much leave meeting someone to the online thing - right ??!
So, please be serious about this, at least with me.

As one who has faced his own imminent demise in today's world it is lucky for me that I have been given
the time to learn about enlivening one's body - and that I've had the time needed to get healed too.

Back when my time remaining in this life appeared to be very short I also learned...:
Living is about what we may share (rather than being about -stuff-).
That's why we are on this site - to find someone in all this world to share our lives with - right ?!?

=>Adding this info just to be very clear=>
I'm positively, completely 100% single - not married, separated, living-with, etc...
Not even a dog or cat of my own is in my life at present, there's just me.
So - yes - I'm really, truly available and ask the same of someone who may be interested to meet.

I presently provide daily care for a small herd of someone else's horse-folks and they are a great pleasure for me.
(The horse-person in my photo with me (Tyler) was in my life for over 20 years.
He's gone on now to a better place, and of course I'll always miss him.)

Are you that ONE woman reading this who wants a man in her life for his better qualities ??
I'm ready and waiting to share mine if you're ready to share yours.
That's another important thing in all this - being ready.

Please do send me an email if anything I've written appeals to you.
I don't believe in, or abide by 'the rules' commonly held about men having to 'make the 1st move';
Women & men need to relate as equals, it is as simple as that in my opinion.

If interested to see other stuff I have written, please visit my small web site at=>

I close with my real name because I think introductions are important; please introduce yourself as well ?!?

Thank you.


It is very easy to send a real message to someone else at this site.
Apparently there is a 'flirt' button for the women folks only that sends "Hey there :)"
I don't reply to those things, or folks who smoke, or religious folks.
(I am only seeking the company of a 100% nonsmoker.)

Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
And in light of the added text in the other section - yes - it really did happen.

*******************Unedited previous text follows********************
((Hmmmmm....I think they must mean when we that really a 'date' ?))
Ideally, when at last we meet - the eyes make contact, the world sort of spins a wee bit, then it just sort of.....gets less important, and we proceed into our own world, much happier for it's actual existence !

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