I saw this so I copped it here because I belive it 2 B true.
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What I say here is (besides kids,& family) that should always be very importeant?
A MUST! THE ONES THAT ARE MOST IMPORTANT 2 ME!!
You believe the same as I that U should have only one lover!
One that like myself feels & thinks these things the same way that I do with my feelings that I will have 4 the one ill be with.
I feel that it is importent that we feel the same way about these things or were not on the same skripet that
witch I feel is the way that can keep a relassionship 2gether wich I feel is only write for me.
I AM THIS WAY, IT IS ALL FROM THE WAY I WAS BROUT UP BELIEVING IN, & STILL VERY MUCH DO!
I will 4ever drop what I am doing, & go 2 U if you need me. I want U 2 no ure feelings R first, B 4 anyone else. Like my heart, I would never put anything or anyone B 4 U!
U will always want us both 2 always put R relassionship 2gether above things making sure were both happy with what is 2 last 4ever! Nothing more important, but kids or family!
I have already had a wonderful 18 years in a 20 years of marriage. I am not looking 4 the same thing again! NO! What I want is one loving woman 4ever! why would anyone want any less?,, It is whats right 4 me.
I learned a lot about what I want out of life, & what I need. 2 party is not something that I seek at all!
I am 58 NOW LAST MAY 5'5" with a big heart.
I came back now its just getting a little to hard being alone night,& day without being happy this way.
I am more honest, & true to my woman with a lot of old fashion beliefs like marriage should b forever for one, and that makes it very embarrassing for me to be married more than once.
who I am? well I can tell you that I like spending time at a store reading millions of cards trying to find just the rite one for my lady.
12 years ago my x & I split up.
in our home the cards all from me that were covering all four walls in are home you couldn't find a spot that didn't have one. Been many years ago now since I seen her last about divorce papers. I am still having a hard time BEING ALONE I'm just not meant to be by myself without someone to love and care for.
WHILE MARRIED I would put short love letters in her pants pockets before I would go to work, in her car, in her pack of smokes, or in her lunch box THAT I would make for her to take to her work so that she would find them when she was alone or if ever sad she could always find paper that said I love you to show I was there with her whenever we had to be apart for a while.
I am not saying this to be thinking of her now, but just to say what type of man I am.
I like to get Flowers almost every month, I always try to get anything I think would make you happy if I can.
but I think my x just got use to everything I did for her and had gotten old to her, or not new for her I guess?? Now its about 12 years to get over it.
I need being in love with someone being in love back with me, it is the best feeling in the world, better then ice cream, cake, a new car, everything! I just cant think of anything as important to me then finding someone willing to work at falling in love together with me.
I always love trying to find a way to please the one that I'm with.
just love to see your smiles that I am missing now.
married we had 7 kids, two mine five of her kids plus two her boys we adopted grand kids.
I took care of all the kids most of the time while she was working then took most all but one girl to work with me at the community center boxing room teaching them all how to box & how to turn down a fight if possible but how to end it fast if need. I love kids.
I am one man that loves to be in love I can fall deeply in love with almost anyone never leaving them or going out on them ever.
I like to smile, laugh, hugs & kiss good night, kiss good morning, even if your knot getting along at that time. Always important for me to be able to feel that something is there whether your having a hard time or not!!
cant be one that likes to stay mad for very long or it will never keep a marriage with enough love in it unless were a lot younger and can make love all the time making up lol.
i would love to find someone able to forgive without wasting the hole day away because life is to short, and even more then that i cant handle my lover and i being in bad moods especially when you get past that 50 mark you really can almost feel the years go by in what feels like just maybe 6 or seven month to me, and boom its your birthday and you didn't even think another year could have went by again.
it is true that you spend so much more time with DR. appointments,
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
ASK IF YOU LIKE COFFEE OR MILK SHAKES SO WE COULD MEET AND TALK AT MAYBE A PARK OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT IN THE OPEN ABOUT A 1/2, to an HOUR TO AN HOUR, THAT WAY WE COULD MEET SO WE WOULDN'T HAVE TO FEEL LIKE WE HAVE TO STAY LONG IF we
WEREN'T THE OTHERS TYPE. IF we DID WANT TO SEE EACH OTHER AGAIN WE COULD SEND A MESSAGE THAT YOU WOULD LIKE TO SEE EACH OTHER AGAIN.
THIS WAY YOU WOULDN'T BE PRESSURED TO SPEND TO MUCH TIME WITH SOMEONE THAT YOU WOULDN'T WANT TO. at least that makes sense to me.
OR YOU COULD TELL ME WHAT YOU WOULD LIKE TO DO something different TOGETHER, OR YOU COULD ASK ME OVER FOR A DINNER OR A GAME, or we could go deep sea fishing together if you would like, I love being on shore fishing, but it has been many years since I got to do much with someone that I like being with.
you tell me what you would love to do, I think we'll just do that instead.