(Am I the only person who does not like talking about themselves?) I am “Open-minded”. I do not form an opinion until I can back it up. However as I get older I find myself more and more opinionated but not to the point where I will not hear the other side, quite the contrary I enjoy it. I find myself getting more enjoyment from 3 hour conversation then a 3 inch thick book even though there are some good ones. I prefer more technical books then novels (I get something useful, so long as they pertain to a subject of great interest). I have been known to be logical even to my own detriment. Needless to say I am not interested in someone who does not or can not hold a conversation. Before you think I am some dry, logic driven, uncompassionate, unromantic, or whatever conclusion you made so far, let me put your worries to rest.
I can be a goofy little dork that makes lame jokes at times. I know your looking at my picture and saying “no, not you”: yes even me. I can be vary romantic (albeit in a dorky sort of way or at least some of the time). I find contentment in small things. I am honest. I say what I mean and mean what I say (to use a lame Cliché). I don’t lie to pick up girls. I am a lousy liar anyway. I don’t say I love someone unless I truly mean it. I believe what counts is not necessary what a man says but rather the validity behind it.
For someone who does not like talking about himself I sure wrote a lot.
I am looking for a girl that is not only capable but willing to communicate. What do I mean? I am looking for someone who will not dominate the conversation (I am thinking of a spoiled brat or worse yet a drama queen). Conversely, I am not looking for someone that will contribute nothing to the conversation (I am thinking super, super shy type: which is fine at first but not continually). Did I mention communicating earlier? Hmmm… must be important. I am looking for someone who is honest. Someone, who is monogamous. I don’t want someone who is a nun and has no sex drive and obviously I am not looking for someone who is a party animal that sleeps with anyone.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Nothing to exiting. No expectations, no let downs. Perhaps somewhere quiet, in order to get to know each other better. Perhaps somewhere scenic like a beach or park/garden. Maybe get something to eat but nothing to fancy. Not necessarily fast food but a café maybe (you know someplace with a lot of goofy stuff on the wall). Romantic evenings are fine, just not for a first date. It’s not what you do but the company you keep, to use a silly cliché.