Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Instead of "dinner and a movie", how about just goin' out for a drink for the first date. Dinner on the first date tends to be potentially "boring" in sorts. I'd love for the guy to call me by early evening the day before the date. That tells me he's excited about it and "into me". Not only that, but it's the "polite" thing to do.
If the guy wants to keep the plans a surprise, atleast clue me in as to what to wear. An overdressed, overstressed woman navigating in high heels on a sunset beach walk can be a very disturbing site.
I need someone who will actually "LISTEN" to what I have to say. It's very disturbing to me, when my man butts in and cuts me off. It makes me feel like he's not listening and feeling superior to me. Don't assume that because you "think" I look nice, that I actually KNOW this. Compliment me and tell me what you TRUELY feel. Honesty is the best policy in my book!!
A man that does nothing but talk about sex is a real turn off for me. Don't expect me to jump into bed with you on your first date! There are other things, sometimes even better things to talk about than sex. A nice smile, white teeth, fresh breath, and the CELL PHONE OFF shows me that he's actually thinking about me...That I have his FULL attention.
Don't ask me what kind of music I like...That's the worst conversation starter ever!! Instead, just put something romantic on. It MIGHT just get you somewhere. READ THE BODY LANGUAGE!!! Simple gestures go a LONG way and let me know you're truely interested! When you take me home, wait for me to get into the house..We DO notice things like this.
I would be ecstatic if i could find a man that would pay attention to just ME..I find it very unnerving when I see the man I'm with looking at another woman while on a date with me. There's nothing more disturbing than a wandering eye. If you're caught, we're finished!
By the end of the night, if you feel a connection, don't hesitate to ask for another date. I might just feel the same thing and well, we can go out again and see where it goes!