In a nutshell.. this is far from a sales pitch..
I not an average guy, not cut from the same pattern.. I have my own identity, individuality, as everyone else, with qualities and improvements to work on, down to earth, easy-going, open-minded, well read, well travelled, sense of humour, good listener, confident, independent, good old moral values, and a little on the conservative side.
I have lived, studied, and worked in a few countries in this continent, Europe, and few other places, I can say, I am lucky, I have seen and exposed to a broader perspective of life and I have learned to appreciate and enjoy the important, significant and simpler things life offers. At the same time learnt to differentiate between needs and wants... BIG difference!!
I like to communicate, exchange ideas, opinions about any topic.. at the same time, learn something new every day..
I would like to meet someone who; has her own identify, character, personality, knows her own distinctiveness, independent, confident, mature, has a high self-esteem, well read, expressive, not afraid to communicate.. open-minded.. with an opinion, very important.. multidimensional.. awareness.. critical thinker.. a curious and beautiful mind, with traditional values.. She knows when and how to take it easy.. enjoys and lives life.. knows and follows the KISS principle.
I am not looking for the typical cliché..."nice personality" I am looking for depth.. substance..
Communication; a two way communication is one of the the most important factors of human interaction, in this context, for developing and building relationships..
The question is, what kind of relationship? I guess, everyone has a different perception or interpretation.. based on our own experiences.. (those saying, they do not have any baggage, are simply on denial.. at this time in our lives, we all have it, is just a matter of how we use those experiences to improve ourselves).. or just maybe too many environmental influences (too much tele, too many movies.. pop culture) are getting in the process.
Something to think about on the relentless and endless search for the elusive 'chemistry'... Look where that "Chemistry" -- instant gratification - has landed us!! A revolving door kind of situation..
Chemistry is something to be develop.. there is a process to achieve it.. something to nurture.. similar to relationships.. Isn't it!?
Let's keep it Simple!
Life is, and can be simple..or simpler, all depends on how we approach it.. for some odd reason we unconsciously complicate it. the "human" factor in action.
I have found these thought on a few profiles.. They know something!!! some legally... Copyrights to their respective holders.
- I believe great relationships are ones where there is ease of communication, honesty, humour, friendship, trust, respect, support and of course mutual physical attraction.
- Physical attractions are common, but a real mental connection is rare. ...if you find it, hold on to it.
- We may not have experienced the same activities, but we have experienced the same emotions, so when I say you need to find common interests, I mean you need to find something that sparks similar emotions in both.
- If you have a penny and I have a penny and we exchange pennies, you still have one cent and I still have one cent. But if you have an idea and I have an idea and we exchange ideas, you now have two ideas and I now have two ideas." This thought can be applied to relationships.
A few words of wisdom..I am sure everyone will agree with, they do fit the context.
"Destiny is not a matter of chance,
It is a matter of choice;
It is not a thing to be waited for,
It is a thing to be achieved.
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Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
First get together... simple, have a coffee/tea, go for a walk, talk.. NOT A JOB INTERVIEW.
The objective.. to get to know a little about each other... very important, feel comfortable, at ease, have a two-way communication, then, we shall know whether we have anything in common..
If we find we are in the same wave length.. frequency.. affinities.. we will get together again to continue learning abour each others common interests, then, a real date.