I've been single for a few years now. I'm well educated, mannered, traveled, I know which fork to pick up at dinner; My tastes in music, movies, art and design are varied/eclectic (not a punk or hard rock fan); I'm as comfortable in black tie as I am in Levi; I'm self employed and am considered to be quite good at what I do; I live in a nice house in the foothills, have a dog, a cat, a house mate (gay too *just a house mate); My family is very important to me; I have a small circle of qulity friends (a few good friends beats many mediocre acquaintances). I'm a good listener.
I'm not considered bad looking (some even find me handsome).
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I've done the sex for the sake of sex thing. Fine. I deserve/want better.
I'm not sure what I seek in another. It's an indefinable quality. Seek Romance.
Conversation in a pleasant setting would be my first goal. After that, just go with the flow.