Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage. (The Diary of Anaïs Nin, volume 3, 1939-1944)
Would your ideal man:
Winter camp at -40°?
Pass on the Autobahn?
Teach grade 1's to read?
Shave his head for charity?
Own a car but prefer a bike?
Play the guitar, albeit badly?
Crowd surf at Woodstock 99?
Rush an injured cat to the vet?
Have 800 count sheets on his bed?
Mud slide on a Nova Scotia riverbank?
Photograph Paris from the Eiffel tower?
Ride a mechanical bull in a cowboy bar?
Know the proper use of your vs. you're?
Make you laugh so hard you pull a muscle?
Believe sports should be played not watched?
Hug a virtual stranger because they needed it?
Secretly shovel an elderly neighbor’s driveway?
Call his mom because he knew she missed him?
Watch a humpback whale teach her pod to hunt?
Iceberg hunt off Newfoundland’s Northeastern coast?
Listen silently, when you’re looking for validation not advice?
Take responsibility when his best laid plans did not work out?
Leave six figures a year & a window office to do his doctorate?
Talk until sunrise over local wine, wherever local may have been?
Go blindfolded for a week to study how the blind use technology?
Run through freezing rain at 6am to stay on his marathon schedule?
Be metro enough to know Manolo Blahniks & Jimmy Choos are shoes?
Sweet talk his way onto the upper deck of a 747 for a transpacific flight?
If you answered NO to these, we're not a match, but best of luck with your search. If you answered YES to any of the above, we may hit it off, so email me if:
You enjoyed watching Amélie, The Princess Bride, or Six Feet Under
You have at least one book on the go right now, even if it's trashy
You're as comfortable in jeans as you are in a little black dress
Sometimes you smile so much your face hurts
You can hold your own at ANY dinner party
Don't be passive, if you're hoping that I e-mail you because you've showed up on my viewed me list, it's probably not going to happen. It would just take me too long. I'm looking for a woman who knows what she wants out of life and is not afraid to go after it. We're both on here to meet someone, it would be a shame if you passed by without at least saying "hi"...
P.S. I try to get back to everyone. Though if your profile doesn't have a photo please send one along with your note; I know requesting a picture makes me seem shallow, but attraction IS important and you've already had the benefit of seeing me.
P.P.S. If I've added you to favorites but not written, it's likley because I fall outside your POF e-mail settings.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
A cup of something wonderful and some stimulating conversation!