thanks for checking me out without a photo!
I cannot post one due to my job, can't take the chance ...
I look and act much younger than my numerical age
I prefer a man a little younger than I am, not that I'm
a cougar per se, just a preference (maybe 35-40)
But don't let that stop you ...
A few things I really look for in a man: nice hair,
non-smoker, musician a plus ... of course good looking
and a nice body would be good too, but I'm not 100 percent
shallow. I don't really like beards and mustaches - sorry!
Just take a chance and let's meet and be friends,
that won't kill you and if we don't click, no biggie.
Hope to hear from you!
July 2011 update! - OK guys, can we talk?????
I'm getting very close to giving up on this site once and for all.
I'm looking for something VERY simple! A nice, attractive guy near my
age or a bit younger who ISN'T: a separated guy looking to mess with my
mind, a 40 year old virgin who is totally into himself, a midnight booty
caller who wants to hook up for sex late at night, etc.
OCTOBER 2011 updats 2 - once I got past my expectations and got a life, I
stopped caring so much about finding someone to date. Good thing too because
the men I have met on here have not been for real. So I stay connected, so
to speak, but will be very surprised if I ever find a relationship of any
MID OCTOBER UPDATE! I managed to get dumped by two guys this week. Wait till
you find out how! The first was really young, I didn't notice his age, well
we hit it off ok and were planning a second get together when he started talking
really dirty and ugly to me on the phone!! End of that ...
Then the next guy, who was much more my type in many ways, actually wore his
wedding ring to our meeting. It didn't click in my mind until a couple of days
later. HE said it was just one of the rings he wears and was fairly unpleasant
with me for even questioning him about it. "The gentleman protesteth too much, me thinks" lol
Guess I won't be lucky enough to enjoy much more of his company either. Darn.
NOVEMBER UPDATE!! Pretty much throwing in the towel, being on this site has really
caused some unhappy moments in my life, which was just work focused and boring before.
I might try some men in other cities but as for the local "talent" it's just
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
The first meeting is so tough - can we just meet at Starbuck's for 30 mins, have a beverage, and
see if anything happens??? If not, no big ego bruise ... if so, well the night is young!