My friends tell me I have a great sense a humor and can get serious at times. Outgoing,laid back at times. Drugs/Drama free. I'm a woman in control of my own life, I'm not into controlling anyone else, treating others the way I would like to be treated, respect, communicating, listening, agree/disagree in a respectful manner as two adults. I'm not looking for perfection just acceptance. Meaning I accept who you are good/bad and hope you do the same. That does not mean,that drugs/aids/hiv/or any other disease or mental problem is accepted.(don't need that and will not accept any of it in my life) Children I adore, they are a blessing to have and just to watch them grow and achieve whatever goal they have set for themself is such a privilage. I don't spoil children, when they are wrong they are wrong if they are right they are right, disobeience children I perfer not to deal with children that have no respect for adults nor themself. Communications is something that I feel makes a great friendship or something more, also, honesty.
I'm a woman and I think that every woman deserves to be wine and dine, not just on holiday or special days-it should be any day, any time, any place, any where. Making a woman feel special just listening, knowing her likes and dislikes, what makes her laugh, cry, favorite color, etc....message, candlelight at anytime, gifts, cards, flowers,roses, whatever makes her complete. I'm content with who I am today, love who I am, would love to find that special friend with a mind of stablity, open-minded, believes in herself and her children if any. No games, drama, total trust in all areas of life, a woman who can respect my feeling as I do the same for her. What goes on behind closes doors stays behind closes doors and what ever she and I or the children discuss stays in the family not outside.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
If the friendship looks as if its going in a different direction, and we are feeling eachother. I would love to envite her over like a friend would and let her think it just one of those night, I want her around and when she arrive, I would have a nice candlelight dinner waiting for her with nice jazz in the background and take our friendship to a conversation of interest to see if she is feeling what I am feeling (wanting something more friendship) communicating without saying a word and feeling eachother.