I'm a careing guy with a big heart because of that I tend to keep people at a distance. I'm a bit shy, I've been through a lot in my life though and have some great stories if you get me talking. I never go cruiseing for women in bars, ever; and I'm a bit of a recluse at home. I would like to meet a girl however; so I am trying online dateing.
What I look for in a mate is similar qualities and intrests to myself. If you looking for a wild man I'm not him. I your looking for someone who will sit-up and talk with you until 2 in the mourning then keep reading.
I want an intelligent and calm woman who I can share ideas with on a similar level of communication.
I do care about your appearence as I should hope you care about mine. Idealy the woman I seek should share most of my intrests; but I am open to differences as long as they can be discussed.
I'm a quiet, average looking man, of only slightly above average intelligence; looking for a similary endowed woman to share his time with.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I believe there is no "perfect date" I just like to relax with a cup of tea and chat for an hour or so...