Drug and disease free, open to new experiences, and pretty much a free spirit. I have four kids, two grown and two under ten years of age. I want to start out as friends and see where it leads. Also, we're both in dating mode, so please don't expect sex from me on the first date - I'm not out to sleep with everyone I've ever met. The kind of man I'm looking for wouldn't want me to do that anyway. I do not want to meet someone who's in any sort of relationship. I'm not looking for something "discreet" and I won't help you cheat. If you aren't happy, get out of the relationship you're in... end of story. Smoking is a deal breaker, so if you smoke, you might want to move on to the next profile - I can't be exposed to it at all.
I like pool, poker, cooking and baking, sex, music, dancing, singing, walking (especially if there's a nice, light rain falling), swimming and nearly everything to do with the water, sports, artwork (my own and that of others). I love Scotland as well.
I don't put other people down a lot, and don't fancy the trait in others, either. I'm pretty easy going and don't expect a lot of attention, and I'm not jealous or clingy either, so you can keep your female friends if you've got 'em, long as that's all it is.
I'm looking for...
Someone who has maybe a bit in common with myself and knows how to compromise a bit. Also, please have a job - I'm not money hungry and have a job myself, but I don't want to have to take care of anyone.
NO SMOKERS - I am seriously allergic to tobacco in any form, so if you don't wanna give up your habit immediately and for good you might want to move onto the next profile. If your past relationship isn't over, don't even think of contacting me. I understand when ex's have to be dealt with for the kids' sake (going through it myself) but no emotional baggage, please. I also don't want to hear how well you can put down and/or swear about your ex - if it's over, it's over other than the legal and moral obligations. Just looking for friends to start with and then we can see where it goes from there. I'm a new vegetarian, but won't impose that on you if it's not for you. I'm pretty much a "live and let live" kinda woman.
I'll post a pic soon... I'm actually on another computer at the moment and don't have access to my pics.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
For a first date, I would meet in a public place for personal safety reasons, also it's nice to have something to do when you're with someone.