I'm a normal guy that has really never gotten into the dating scene and am new to online dating as I'm sure many of you are. Anyone with whom I've had a serious relationship with in the past I had met through work or through friends and had gotten to know over time. I'd be an ideal candidate for you if you are easy going and unassuming and want the same in your partner. I'm originally from Hawaii so have that laid-back island attitude and fly back every winter to recharge my batteries. I'm honest and trustworthy - perhaps too much so. I have an outgoing, positive personality but am not chatty. I feel I'm a good listener as well as a gentleman. I hold a steady job for a large software company and am financially secure. I TRY to keep in shape, hitting the gym at least once a week, but am not buff. I like pretty much any outdoor sport and played varsity tennis in college.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Depending on your interests, I'd offer to meet for coffee or maybe a snack then take you to a movie, a ballgame, a walk on the lake, bowling, skeet shooting, a driving range, alley graffiti painting (just kidding) or dinner and will always offer to drive you home.