I'm retired and bored, not looking for my other half (already whole) not a girly girl but also not a tomboy
Looking to meet new people and make new friends. Someone who has the time and ability for daytime adventures in addition to a movie or event.
Might we have a romantic evening and fall into each others arms?
Well we might.....but not immediately.
I want to find someone I enjoy spending time with, have mutual respect and affection toward
I need to LIKE you before I WANT you.
I have to spend some time with you to get to know you.
Maybe that's why it's called "dating" not shopping?
Many people appear to be on POF searching for mate like it's a car lot.
Look over the inventory, take it for a test drive, take it home. Try to get used to the fit and finish.
Only to find out that Rolls-Royce you picked up doesn't handle the speed or curves or doesn't fit in the garage or is too expensive to maintain.
I don't want a car-I don't want a MATE
I want someone who might BECOME a BOYFRIEND if he turns out to be "the love of my life/soulmate/greatest romance of all time" I would be the first to admit it AND the most shocked by it! That's not what I'm looking for or expecting.
I'm looking for people who I enjoy spending time with and with a bit of luck maybe some mutual attraction develops.
I have my own money, you should have your own too.
I have my own teeth, you need to get some, if the missing ones are in front.
I have my own hair, yours is optional.
I have someone else's liver, so I don't drink, but you can* (please see disclaimer)
I have a sense of humor, you should have some sense. (any kind will do)
I have a POS boat, maybe you have a spare motor? (LOL)
I am independent easy going and authentic, I can be hard headed, creative, hard working, and lazy.
I am not a diva, fashionista, social climber, or a prude.
* Brushing your one tooth with Budweiser, and rinsing with peppermint schnapps does not mean "social drinker"
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Meet someplace to see if the conversation is good, are you fun and clever? Are you able to laugh at yourself as quickly as you can laugh at others? We can exchange life stories and see if there was something left to say for a second date.