HAERAY: AuthenticCOFFEE Seeks Sweet CREAM 4 Creative Blend
Non-Smoker with Average body type
Detroit, Michigan
68 year old Male, 6' 0" (183cm), Other
Black, Virgo
HAERAY is actively seeking a relationship.
Some college
Free Thinker

I am Seeking a Woman For Long Term
Needs Test View his relationship needs Chemistry View his chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Does not want children
Marital Status Divorced Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Mixed Color Eye Color Brown
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? All my kids are over 18
Longest Relationship Over 10 years How ambitious are you? Very Ambitious
Pets No Pets  

About RAy
Is this on???

160930 A Chemistry Update: "Chemistry" is the gravy covering a steak that you'll chew.
How much or how little required is strictly up to you.
Some demand it smothered while some want just a bit.
But the true quality of your meal comes from the steak that you get.

Note to Vegetarians: Please substitute "some tofu" for "a steak" and "marinara sauce" for "gravy."

082716 Disclaimer: I sometimes feel moved enough to send a fellow pond person a complement or two. In no way shape or form does that mean I'm trying to 'hit on' or make a pass at you. It simply means there are things about your profile that I'm drawn to and support. More simply put; If I'm trying to find out if I have a chance at reeling you in, I do have enough vocabulary to have well included that idea into the words I sent after having read every single word of your profile.

062514 A Night Fishing Story

While checking out a new part of the pond last night, I was struck by a bolt of lightning.
Moments later, as I waz coming back to my senses/ors the following words came into my mind..

"Evolution affords a structure for reac tion and is natural.
All you have to do is show up.

Growth affords a foundation for c reation and is spiritual.
After you've arrived, you'll still have to wade in and get wet.

Do you C where I'm coming from?
Do you C where you're going?"

OK; So maybe it wasn't a lightning bolt, but I was, none the less, struck!

121413 Todays free love/fishing tips & bait:

Love is not emotion.
Emotions are products of brain activity.
Can be strong enough to jump into your boat or yank you into the water.

Love is not chemistry.
Only women know what that is and it's a secret.
It's mostly used to manage catch and release situations

Love is not attraction.
After all, magnets and gravity attract.
Sharks find lots of things attractive too.

Love is a state of being!
Being in love is about being mindfully aware of ones existence in that state.
Trolling is still legal?

Love is always unconditional.
Being mindful is not.
And there's all the excitement of being patient.

Free Bait:
Life is not about the lessons we've learned.
Life is about the experiences we're having..

What are you waiting for?

Personal growth and evolution come not from ones life experiences,
But instead, is the effect of how one chooses to respond to them.
092213 HaeRAy

022112 Another Update: I always use my turn signals and look before changing lanes.

A Personal Commentary: More often then not; There is more than one way to "skin the proverbial cat."
If you require that another perform such a skinning "only" in a manner of your own preference or direction,
We will have little to no chance of forming a lasting personal interaction. Come on! Think SPICE !
To get a handle on where I'm coming from, check out: perceivingreality dot com.

PS, My apologies to the sensitivities of any offended Animal Rights folks!
None of the above has anything to do with the disappearance of my dear cat Oce'.
No animals were abused or harmed during the making of this Update.


I'm gonna' skip past the walks in parks, toes on beaches, dinners with candle-light, playing with puppies, kittens and little kids 'cause anybody who's not into those goodies is, well... I'll just say, "Missing the boat."

I enjoy smiling, touching and talking (deep) and interaction. I like having fun, dancing my butt off and new life discoveries had with open minded people. I understand that life is more about its aware creation followed by its discovery and the fullness of its experience.... I'm in great shape and am fully functional...

UpDated 011512:
I have no desire to own anyone or am I willing to give up ownership of myself to another. That is not to say I'm not looking for or willing to engage a committed and monogamous relationship because, I am. To put it a different way; I believe each person should put their self first. After all; How else could "that person" continue to 'be there' for another. Note: Of course; Rescuing a child from the path of an oncoming train "might be" a different thing, indeed....

I never got attached to sports but don't mind playing or watching a game if an interesting other person would like me to join them. It's fun to watch women get all fired up over sports. I'm more inclined to take off in my Camaro (with the "T" tops off), on my motorcycle (sorry Harley gurls, it's a Kawa) and go somewhere new or old and find some cool people, or even a crowd, to mingle with. Or maybe go rent a plane or (Hey! A new thought!) a boat. Yeah! I do like machines! Wanna' ride with me? Oh Yeah! And let's Dance... In general, I'm easy to please when it comes down to fun things to do and I'm Very Open!

I like to garden... I grow vegi's, herbs and flowers in a garden I constructed on my roof. It's a very relaxing space to hang out in on a warm day or night. I've been known to pitch a tent out there for a sleep over too. At night, with its nice lighting and music, it can also be a very romantic place.

Here are some things I get exited about when it comes to a woman:

Her APPEARANCE: Tall (so we can do more things while standing up), Shapely (so I can stroke and caress your figure), Longer Darker Hair (so I can hide in it), Attention Grabbing Eyes (for me to get lost in.), Long Fingers (not a reference to nails), Olive or Lighter Colored Skin (to enjoy the contrasts of our different ethnic interactings), Lips Configured For Kissing (umm... I like kissing.) and a Face That Smiles By Default (to help light up the world.)

Her PERSONALITY: Open Minded, Spiritually Aware & Seeking, Forward & Positive Thinking, Internally Motivated & Driven, Growth Oriented, At Peace with Self and Seeking A Loving Man for Companionship & a Long Term Deep and Meaningful Interaction.

Added 011512:
Her INTERESTS: If you are also into any kind of Technology; You could make me your slave... You wouldn't want to though, unless you're thinking "Love Slave." ;)

Not Your Average ANYTHING!!
So Much More Than You Might Imagine...

GOOD LUCK Everybody !!!

Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
**** You Know! Something mutually comfortable with plenty of room for some fun and exploratory conversation...

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