I’m a catch and I’m selective. Are you?
You’ll find me complex and independent, honest and affectionate. A great kisser. A sensual and enthusiastic lover. An attractive, emotionally balanced and available, African-American male. I’m athletic and in very good shape: broad of chest, with a narrow and solid waist; a 5'10", 170# hardbody. I’m currently clean shaven: head, face and… Serious when needed & playful when possible, I’m chivalrous, protective, given to public displays of affection and give a great massage.
I have a good, incredibly fulfilling job. Great friends. Love to be active and also like to be a homebody. I’m smart & have a great sense of humor. People feel better when they’re around me. I deal with a lot of other people’s drama in my work but don’t have much (any?) in mine. I love kids and want to have some. I’ve been lucky in dating but not in finding “the one.” I’m holding out for that chemistry that says: “here she is.” I have a healthy appetite for sex and enjoy making my lover feel good. I also think foreplay includes how I talk to a woman, touch her (big on PDAs!) and what I do to let her know that I’m thinking about her.
My ideal woman would be bigger than Paris Hilton/smaller than (the recent) Kirstie Alley. She likes herself and wants a relationship that makes her friends envious, with a man who will be her friend, lover and husband.
MUST-HAVES: wants to start a family, non-smoker, compatible personality, a positive outlook, likes animals, affectionate;
IMPORTANT: no addictions/drama, baggage in its place, sensual, confident, feminine;
WOULD BE NICE: smiles easily, involved with social issues, exotic, funny, very fit;
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
My idea of a perfect first date varies:
1) Romantic: a quiet, candle-lit restaurant, followed by live music at The Aladdin, then dancing 'till 2AM
2) Active: mountain biking in the morning, followed by people watching on NW 23rd and spending the night at the Kennedy school
3) Fun: a weekend trip to the coast to catch the volleyball tournament and a B&B in Cannon Beach
4) Everyday: a picnic at Washington Park & a walk in the Japanese Gardens