sayheytodeb: tell me there's one left!
Smokes Often with A Few Extra Pounds body type
Kelso, Tennessee
48 year old Female, 5' 7" (170cm), Baptist
Caucasian, Aries
sayheytodeb anything.

I am Seeking a Man For Dating
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry View her chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Does not want children
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Mixed Color Eye Color Other
Do you have a car? Prefer Not To Say Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship
Pets No Pets  

About Me

i thought about letting my daughter type this part for me because she'll tell ya like it is. she doesn't pull any punches! but i was afraid she might tell u things that would be damaging to my southern charm!
so here's a little bit about my world:

(i'll give each one a title. then you can pick thru and read the ones that might apply to you in some way!)

** i do drink occasionally, but am totally not into any alcoholics. nothing is more unattractive than someone who can't hold their liquor. (staggering, drink-spillin', droolin', hot-tempered, rooster crowin' know-it-all's are not for me)

*** i get along with most everyone i meet and i accept people for who they are, not what they have, how much money they make or who they know.

**** i do not like people who constantly have to be the center of attention or who believe they are somehow smarter than the rest of us. i put everyone on the same level as me when i meet them. the only way to move up is to be yourself and just treat everyone with some dignity and respect. the main way to move down is by belittling someone, taking advantage of random people or friends to get ahead, looking down on those who are not as fortunate, lying, stealing or cheating on the person you love.

****** i have had some hard times in the past. i have had bad relationships. i have made mistakes. i have lived the wild life. i have burned bridges that i should have rebuilt, instead. that's life and that is a part of WHO I AM. however- i don't dwell on all the negatives. i remember them, i have gotten past most all of them and i have learned from them. mission accomplished. i know how to leave the past where it belongs... in the past. i am looking for someone who can do the same.

******* although i am open to almost any new adventure, i am also a homebody. i love my home and i am quite happy right now, just relaxin' around here with the kids and the dawgs. i am still doing some remodeling which seems to be a never-ending battle! but it is satisfying. so if you are a man who is like the energizer bunny and you cant sit still- i like my home time. on the flip side- if i have to scrape your lazy butt off the couch to get you to go to a movie or dinner or a weekend get-a-way or just a drive to nowhere in particular. . . well, that will get old real fast.

******* i am a simple woman with simple tastes. i dont always need a gift as assurance that i'm cared for, loved, etc. i like a man who can show it, not just say it or buy it. i would rather have a single flower of any kind than a dozen roses. and i'd rather get that single flower on some random day rather than getting a bouquet and balloons and teddy bears and chocolate on valentines day. i like findin' a little note tucked away somewhere. i like a kiss for no reason. i'd rather have a back rub than a new piece of jewelry. OKAY- that might not be a good example because i LLLOOOVVVEEE jewelry! but you get the picture!

******** i dont have a lot of family left so my kids and my friends and my extended family are very important to me. spending time with my man's family will be just as important to me as it is him.

********* sometimes on sunday if we have no plans, i like to wear my jammie pants all day. with my fuzzy socks. and maybe just have some "me" time. read, draw, paint, create, cook, work in the yard, go to a resale shop, thrift store, flea market. i dont like to be smothered. i believe that everyone needs some time to themselves.

*********** i like to spoil my man. i like to take off his shoes when he's tired. i like to rub his back when he's had a hard day. i like to fix his dinner plate and bring it to him sometimes. i like to run him a bath and wash his back. and yes, guys, you WILL like a good bubble bath.
but please dont take me for granted. it is not my job to do those things. it is something i do to show how much you mean to me and how much i appreciate you.

************* i am NOT looking for the perfect man. i am looking for the man who is perfect for me. if you are looking for the "perfect" woman- good luck. nobody's perfect. i am about 5'7". i am by no means an ogre but i am not a barbie doll either. i have curves. i have hips. i have extra pounds. on the other hand, i do not need two airline seats, i do not have trouble fitting thru doorways and children dont run away in horror when they see me!!!! LOL. i am just a woman who takes care of herself cosmetically and i have good hygiene. i have brown / blonde mixed color hair and blue eyes. are there things i'd change? of course. do i dwell on those little imperfections? no. if you are looking to land a skinny trophy girlfriend or wife, then happy hunting. i am not a twig. like i always say "skinny girls are for wimps!" ( not meant to offend anyone ) i've always been told that "the big dawgs like meaty bones!"

************** i like art, love a wide range of music but seem to go back to my country music (old and new) and hard rock. i like to fish, camp out when it's cool outside, decorate, improve my yard and home any way i can, live music, shooting pool, learning new things when possible, tattoos, the beach, the moonlight, drives, walks, cuddling, holding hands. as far as public displays of affection- i am all for it. but when buttons start poppin' and clothes start hittin' the ground, it's time to get back home! LOL i love animals. especially my 9 yr. old red nose pit named willow, my 5 year old chocolate red nose pit, goober, and our newest ball of fur- callie the border collie. i am not afraid to get dirty and my favorite way would have to be mud! whether that involves a big truck, an ATV or pigs- i'm good to go! i like the way it squishes between my toes!

************** I dont think i believe in love at first sight. i would like to. and i am not doubting those of you who have said that it happens. there is that instant physical attraction that grabs your attention and there is chemistry that seems to be developing during that first meeting. i think as long as there is a spark there, there's a chance.

******************* I CAN'T BELIEVE I TYPED ALL THAT.... sorry to anyone who actually made it this far! LOL

Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
a lot of men on POF IM me once or send me a message once and want to talk on the phone right then. i am not comfortable giving out my number that quick. i like to chat for a while , talk on the phone a few times and then meet. go somewhere for dinner, lunch or just some coffee or a beer. a movie isnt such a good idea because you cant talk and get to kow the person.

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