catiouslyoptimistic13: Taking a Chance...
Non-Smoker with Average body type
Maplewood, New Jersey
57 year old Female, 5' 3" (160cm), Christian - other
Caucasian, Aquarius
catiouslyoptimistic13 anything.

I am Seeking a Man For Long Term
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry View her chemistry results
Do you drink? No Do you want children? Undecided/Open
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Brown Eye Color Other
Do you have a car? Prefer Not To Say Do you have children? No
Longest Relationship
Pets No Pets  

About Me
Are you tired of high maintenance women who play games with your heart? If your answer is "Yes," continue reading...

I'm just getting back into the dating scene and thought I'd take a chance here in the fish pond! I believe there are men in the same situation I am. Not into the bar scene or pick up lines and not that meny quality men throughwork, what choices are left?. I'm tired of game players, liars, broken promises and people who at our age don't know what they want out of life!

I'm down to earth, easy going and enjoy the company of my family and friends. Honest, sincere, affectionate, compassionate, clean cut with family values and a sense of humor. Not materialistic, I prefer the simpler things in life.

Raised Catholic, I am not overly religious. Instead I have a strong, quiet, gentle Faith. A big hearted woman, I really care about other people; which explains my career choice and volunteer work.

I believe people need to be able to have honest communication with each other for any kind of relationship to succeed. I believe sharing one's feelings, thoughts, hopes, desires and even disappointments; as well as sticking by someone through the good and not so good times is an important part of any relationship.

I'm not looking to meet someone perfect, or for the perfect relationship; after all we all have our faults. And perfect is so boring! I'd like to meet someone who is secure with himself in a humble way. He doesn't have to be joined at the hip with that special someone in his life. There is a mutual trust that enables both of us to explore own interests and maintain independent friendships.

I'm looking for a man who is emotionally mature, yet isn't afraid to let the child in him come out to play. You know, walking barefoot in the rain looking for that rainbow! Making snow angels in the snow. Chasing a butterfly or firefly. He has a sense of humor and is able to laugh at himself, especially when he does something stupid!

I don't think it's asking too much to meet a non-smoking, 40-48 year old family I described who is also family oriented with old fashioned values.

I'm not looking to meet the Calvin Klein Underwear model, just someone who is happy with who he is. Let's face it; I'm not going to win a beauty contest; and for what it's worth -neither are you! If you seriously think you will, you're in for a rude awakening.

I love children. Being 'Godmommie' to 4 makes up for not having my own. I'd like to be mommie to my own children; but with the the time ticking away and the way the world is today; I'd be happy being a stepmommie.

I'm a hopeless romantic; BUT I am not hopeless. Somewhat cautious, I figure I have nothing to loose by taking a chance on POF. I intend to redo my profile within the next few days. Just wanted to get my feet wet for now.

Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
It would depend on how well we connected through email and on the phone. Now that the weather is cooler, maybe a diner for a cup of hot cocoa. If we hit it off we could expand our time together. I'm always up for a game of mini-golf (there's an indoor place not far from me). Maybe catch a movie, or even browse a bookstore.

If we don't hit it off; at least we made a new friend. Right?

Mail Settings
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Age Between:39 and 49.
Lives in United States
Lives within 75 Must not do drugs
Must not be married
Must not smoke

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