Oh boy, I hate doing this stuff, cuz it ain't like I make it a habit to talk about myself much, so I'm kinda at a loss for words(which is a bit unusual for me). Ok, here goes...honestly...I don't really know what to say about myself. I can tell ya what my pals say...I'm a riot!!! I love having fun and making people laugh, sometimes not even on purpose! I'm sort of a clown most of the time, love to flirt and "cut-up", but then on the other hand, I love helping people sooooo much. I'm a good listener, very caring and understanding, but I love to talk too. I am a very analytical person by nature and I love study.. I'm about as straight up as a person comes, in other words, i am pretty much brutally honest, so don't ask if ya don't wanna know. Still, I try to buffer it enough so that I never hurt feelings if possible. I'm also the biggest sap that ever lived....too soft hearted for my own good. Heck, I cry at a sad commercial !!! Lol. I'm very loving and giving, and extreeeeeemly romantic, with the right person. And, I guess I got a bit of a redneck streak at times too....tho my buds would say "streak? more like a highway!" lol. I'm just a lil' bit of everything, I'm probably the kindest hearted person you would ever meet. Friends and family alike say my ex's got off way too easy, and basically they can't figure out why I'm as nice as I have been to them. I guess forgiveness is alot of it and low self-esteem was the other part, but that has changed somewhat of late. I guess you could say I'm multifaceted. For those of you who look at such things, I'm a Gemini- there are many sides to me. I'm kinda the silly, compassionate,sensible, loyal, trustworthy, down-home, optimistic, level-headed type and that's just a few sides of me. A part of me is adventurous, another me is the girl next door, then there's the farmer's daughter me, the artistic me, the "let's go raise some hell" me, the spriritual me, the mom of the year me, ... you get the idea. I don't really have one specific personality which stays with me all the time unless you want to say friendly and faithful to a fault. No, I aint SYBIL!!!!... (Just her twin, lol). I'm just a country girl with a few twists, with a fair mix of current and old fashioned values. I guess in some ways I'm a plain Jane. In others, you'd have a heck of a time solving this mystery. In other words, life would be interesting to say the least. I love discovering what each day will bring and stopping long enough to breathe in the special moments. Not to brag, but most people seem to take to me, and I'm prolly one of the most loyal friends you could ever have.Raised poor, to value that which you have and take care of it, whether things or people, and to tell it like it is as kindly as possible, saves time and feelings. Im not every guy's dream, just an uncomplicated person, plain talk, and plain loyalty when deserved. I am a good person with good morals Don't have alot of time for dating, due to having my kids with me all the time,among other reasons... but I'm up for making friends after being out of the social scene for so long and see what happens. I am separated, have been since Feb of 2005, my divorce is still pending. I have two children whom I cherish., a bipolar son (14) and a daughter (10). Both these situations sort of limit my social life, and because of my son's condition...yep, there's gonna be drama (just havent found anyone man enough to handle it). So, i haven't had alot of time to meet people except online, and i have reconnected with several friends and made a few new ones by this means. However, life does go on and I mainly am looking to get to know people right now. I'm not into head or heart games. Not a fancy person, and I dont always get to do alot of what I'd like to, but im usually up for fun and will usually try things at least once, unless it involves jumpin out of a plane or somethin! I'm an idealist and a true romantic. Still believe in and hope for a forever kind of love and not just empty promises, but that will come in time. I am generally outgoing by nature, a bit shy in unfamiliar crowds, and have been known to make a bit of merry mischief at times. Have a lot of wonderful qualities to offer some lucky man (so my friends say) lol, but be warned i do have a HUGE sense of humor, so if you dont like to cut up and laugh, dont bother contacting me. If you wanna get to know someone who was born in the present, but who's heart belongs in the romantic medieval period, you found her. If a modern diva is what you're after, don't stop here. But if an old fashioned woman with a warm and generous heart is what you're seeking, you may yet be in luck. I like simple pleasures like a soft breeze, watching the stars, feeling the sun on my skin, the bubble of a child's laugh, and a tender hearted man. Know any?
Please fellas....if you are a dozen states away, or not what i have listed (caucasian, american indian, latino)....then do NOT bother contacting me cuz I won't reply. I'm not being rude, I just know what I want and would rather not waste my time or yours. I'm not crazy about ex-military either. Nothing against the troops, just having been married to two of them...I'm kinda put off by it. Still, I won't rule someone out solely on that. It's hard to find "the one" and I wish you all luck...heck, need it myself! Found him, but he's so far away and neither of us can move. Sad really...I've never found anyone I connected with so much. But, contact stopped, so I guess he decided to move on and forgot to let me in on it, lol. Oh well, I wish him only love and happiness, and hope to hear from him again someday, just to know he's ok. For now, I guess I'll just try to keep an open mind as far as the future goes.
I guess now I can tell you a bit about my physical nature. I have long brown hair, due to past childbirths I'm a bit out of shape, but I'm working on that at the moment. A bit chubby from babies, but not fat by any means, you know, the irish milkmaid or chubby cheerleader type. Heck, just ya average country chick. I don't wear a bag over my head, but i'm not a runway model either. And any pic I put up here will be recent...at least within the past two years, most of them more recent than that. I will say this tho, I don't think I look like my photos, though I've been told I do (ha, I WISH!!) Most of my pics (I think) look far better than I do in person. Just lettin ya know so you won't be disappointed if that kinda stuff matters to ya.
Well, that's bout it, if ya want to, gimme a yell...I don't bite...too hard, lol. LOL, about that opening line...fun as in goofin' off. Had a few that have taken that the wrong way!
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Heck if I know!!! I guess that would depend on who I was goin out with. I can tell ya some things that I like tho! I like walks in the park, movies, bowling, shootin' pool (tho I ain't that great at it), going for a drive, going out to eat, watchin an occasional ballgame, geez...this ain't gonna work...just too many things to list. Tell ya what, just ask me if I wanna do somethin' and I'll let ya know, lol. I'm pretty flexible, besides, if I'm goin on a date...a surprise now and then is fun.