"Let go of your jealousies and feelings of possession... free yourself from these and you truly possess everything" - anon
"It's always funny until someone gets hurt... and then it's just hilarious!" - Faith No More.
Well, I don't like talking about me very much since I'm more of a listener and observer. I can chat for hours, or keep quiet and nod when I'm supposed to. lol Excellent listening skills, huh? heh heh!
I love music. I'm listening to it almost constantly. My tastes are very ecclectic, but tend to focus on industrial, goth, punk, electro, rock, metal and alternetive. My favorite bands are those weird ones you've probably never heard of: Faith No More, Suicide Commando, Wumpscut, DevilDriver, Ministry, etc. But I love my NIN, Rob Zombie, M. Manson, etc. Foo Fighters, the Killers, Yeah Yeah Yeahs and Metric... see... lots of various styles. heh! You listen to a range when you DJ.
I love spending time with good friends, be it simply hanging playing Rock Band or going out and dancing at New City or shooting some pool at a pub. I don't drink or do any drugs, but I'm not against anyone doing so. Life is for living - if that is your thing than I support you enjoying yourself 100% :)
I'm very kind, gentle and understanding. I'm a pleaser and enjoy giving pleasure to the people I care about. In my lifestyle, giving is a hugely attractive quality and I luckily very much enjoy it. :)
My biggest hope is to simply be happy with my place in the world. lol Sounds silly but I think it's extremely important strive for true bliss.
As to what gives me bliss? So far my friends and enjoying my work are the biggest. I want to travel and to experience life as much as I can. I want to open my own business and learn new things. I'd be happy learning to dance and play the drums while running my own pub or social club. Who knows?
I help run a local swingers club and am often DJing there as well. I also work at a Fetish/Fashion shop owned by my two best friends.
I am polyamourous and polyfi. This can be a huge problem for many people, but it's who I am and I have no wish to conceal anything. My friends are important to me no matter what my relationship with them or you may be :)
I believe you can love more than one person. I could never say I love my brother more than my sister or father... I just love them in different ways. I apply the same values to romantic love. Letting go of jealousy and possession is the true path to a healthy relationship, at least so I've found.
So, if you are looking for someone that is ****genuine*** then you've found him. Now here's hoping you actually are impressed and interested... lol
Oh, and best of luck in your searches!
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
It all depends on the mood and the chemistry. Everyone is different, and it is always a matter of who you are with and not where you are. The journey is always more important than the destination itself...
I am not one of these type of guys that is perfect "if there is such a thing" but I am truly a good hearted person and I know what I want and what I am seeking.