I am giving this a shot in meeting new people doing this online thang. It’s an alternative to the bar/club scene, where conversations are barking matches. I have heard success stories from others re: online dating/people seeking. One of my good friends met his current lady on this website. So here I go into the…
The main activity I do besides work and having a heartbeat is weight train. It’s been part of me most of my life. It keeps me physically and mentally strong. I also ride my bicycle for cardio and as transportation.
I cook for myself and can use more than a microwave and toaster in the kitchen. My favorite foods to chow are Italian, Mexican, Chinese, Indian, Thai, Vietnamese, Middle Eastern, Greek,and American fare and some junk food. I’ve had 10 years work experience in the food industry. The dishes I cook for myself are simple, muscle building, and seasoned. To feed others I make it an art.
Besides being fit and able to cook, I feed my brain with the written word. The last book I read was The Kite Runner by Khaled Hosseini and it was mesmerizing. I also finished Carrie by Stephen King. I read a lot of nonfiction. Most of my reading consists of fitness and nutrition.
My eardrums are also stimulated w/ beautiful sounds. I am a rock n’ roller 4life. Drums, guitars, and vocals are what I was fed as a young lad and been my musical fuel. I also dig classical, some jazz, r+b, some rap, various instrumental. Not familiar w/ country or opera.
Visuals are the main stimuli for my eyeballs. I am into movies big time w/ my Blockbuster membership. The last movie I saw in the cinema was Quantum of Solace . Some recent ones on video I have seen are Dr. Who Season#1, Not Another Teen Movie, Showtime's Masters of Horror Season #1, Planet Terror, Firecracker,Dexter Season #1, Super Bad, and Dirty Sanchez-The Movie.
Besides myself: I enjoy spending time w/ family and good friends.
The Fine Lady I Seek:
- Be 21-31 years old.
-Work 9 to 5 paying bills and surviving.
-Take care of her body and mind.
-Cook more than toast and use other appliances besides the microwave.
-Like to go clubbing and to bars on occasion, the movies, howl at the moon, house parties, tumbling on the beach, eat out at different establishments, and get chased by wild animals in the forest.
-Brain activity and a pulse a big plus.
-Need not worry on signing a contract.
-The ability to converse.
Not Interested in the following:
-The latest fashion trend
-Living w/ Mommy+Daddy
-Smoking cigarettes+crack/Needle sports
-Ex-boyfriend/ex-husband drama/worries or children
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I wouldn't call the first meeting a first date, it just sounds so text book. I'd see it as an opportunity for a spark or interest for further interaction. An active setting like walking on the beach, a weight training session, or checking out yard sales. It would not be a uncomfortable setting as if it was a job interview.