*Update* I picked this completely random username like 11 years ago. I'm over it. I should also probably point out that I am a grammar snob. Proper use of the English language will give you brownie points. Tally ho!!!
I have been with butches and femmes, studs and girly girls. I have come to that age where I believe sexuality is fluid. It doesn't matter who I'm with, if there's a flow, I go with it. Basically I just want to feel wanted and appreciated. To sum up who I am in a box is difficult so I will try to give you the basics, the things that matter.
I have a decent work ethic. I was raised to think for myself. Despite coming from a strict Christian household, I do not share the same religious views as my family. I still believe in traditional values like family comes first, respect your elders, be mindful of what you say and do in front of children and try to set a good example. I try my best not to be judgmental of others. I believe education is very important. I believe in equality for everyone.
Despite the fact that I lead an "alternative" lifestyle, I have a moral code. While I believe gays should be allowed to marry, I still believe in the sanctity of marriage, such as being faithful and loyal and honest and devoted to one person and one person only. And if I do get married, I believe it should be until the day I die. I don't judge people for getting divorced (I understand that people change and are better off going their separate ways) but that is not an experience I want in my life.
I have so many different interests and hobbies that if we do not share something in common, it doesn't mean that I don't like it, usually only that I haven't experienced it yet. I no longer have a "type" because people are so varied that you cannot base a relationship on looks alone. What I look for is someone who shares the same values as I do. I am a romantic and believe in showing my appreciation for the one I am with.
I'm a geek at heart. Sometimes I think I was born in the wrong decade. I love any and all things circa 1940's, i.e. World War 2 history, pin up girls and smoky jazz/noire music. My favorite music is 90's pop but I will listen to just about anything. Rick Astley's "Never Gonna Give You Up" is my jam and I could listen to it for eternity!!! I also love playing video games (even watching them) and American Dad. I always imagined my inner **** to be like Roger.
I LOVE Harry Potter. House Ravenclaw, right here. No shame. And if you want to see me bawl like a baby, watch the Hobbit with me. Many tissues will be sacrificed. You have been forewarned.
So yeah, ultimately I'm just weird, random and living life one day at a time and enjoying it while I can. If this sounds like something you would be interested in then go ahead and hit me up. Even if we don't click I will always be honest with you; and if you are honest with me then you will have my respect.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Say something cerebral. Or funny. Or deep. Just not a friggin flirt. I don't respond to generic greetings you'd say to a customer. I'm eccentric; surprise me!