I'm an easy going guy who has always been busy with the good things
life sends my way.
I try to be honest in all I do. I am low maintance, and give equal
priority to time working and time off.
Oh, I have trouble creating these profiles. Originally I was thinking
"Wanted: Friend with Benefits!"
I am not necessarily looking only for that perfect best love
of life soulmate forever girl: I am happy to meet with someone I can
call a friend. I want to meet someone who feels a connection with me,
and will identify me as friendly too.
I'm the kind of guy who grows on you, you grow on me. We
may not feel it the first time we meet, if we're a bit shy
I don't mind the idea of long term, of committment. I just know there are so many
things which can get in the way. Work schedules, morning person vs evening person,
family committments, your life problems, my life problems.
Life is funny. While writing an ad like this, everyone can shine! We want
someone nice: That should be so easy to find, since everyone is mostly nice!
AH, I see my problem: I analyse too much!!
I'm not against finding someone who is right. I just see how hard
it can be, and how easily we as people can spoil it all instantly.
So instead, I'm hoping to find someone who is happy to be with me
right now, and we will make the most of that "now" time.
Once you get to know me:
I'm tactile, and hope you are too. I like to touch the back, your
hair, your hands as we talk. I hope you'll touch me. I want to say
Hello and Goodbye with a hug.
The parts of intimacy I want the most right now is the kissing
So in the end, you have to meet me. See if I'm cute
enough! You just have to note what happens when we
are together. Let's see! Let's find out if we can be friendly.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Well, this is a first meeting, not a first Dream Date!
Let's talk over coffee etc. Or let's walk and walk and
walk. I like that too. If you are out of town, then we
can wander in your neighbourhood.
Do you want a dream?
I'd like to hang out with you when you have work to do,
so we chat in the same room. I'd like you to trust me
folding your laundry with you, or in the kitchen with you
as you do other things, so that we can get away sooner.
Ah, where would we get away?
I like the speed the world moves when on a bicycle.
It's hard to talk on a bike, so we have to go somewhere
nearby. Or stop often to talk and "rest".
I like lunch dates! If we go to a buffet, there is going
to be something there for both of us, and an opportunity
to try things we may like, or not, but it's fine either way.
I'll take you dancing somewhere. I like that a lot.
I teach country dancing, and other kinds I just participate
in. Doesn't matter. It's a good way to hang out. I know
lots of places locally that may surprise you.
Another dream date.
Let's go to a workout together. I won't interrupt too much,
but we can try to talk side by side on aerobic equipment. I
enjoy taking classes, but they're not a great place to talk!