I have deleted my profile from this site on a few occasions, figuring that there was nobody out there who was serious. Then I came to realize that I might not have told the whole truth about who I am and who I am looking for; because evidently my profile only attracted those who were looking for a one night stand or wanted to date 3-4 different people.
I do enjoy being with my friends, etc, but what I am really looking for in a relationship is to have a woman that I can fall in love with every time I look at her. To have someone that I can build those special memories with (i.e. to be together on the 4th of July and see the sparkling in her eyes from the fireworks exploding in the air, to feel her breath against me when we are holding each other, to remember those silly things she does when she is happy, or nervous, the look in her eyes when I can tell she is feeling safe when I am with her, and to see the lights from a Christmas Tree sparkle and glimmer in her eyes on Christmas morning).
I could go on and on about what I am about and what I want so I guess the best way to really know me is to send me a message and see if we are compatible. I would like to add that I am always in a good mood and a happy person. I do not let the events of the day bring me down, because if we allow that, then are emotions will go up and down constantly. Besides, nothing will happen today or tomorrow that will not end up working out anyway, so why stress over it.
I guess you can say that I am a bit old fashoned when it comes to love and relationships, because I still love opening doors for my lady and treating her as a lady.
This profile will not be exciting or attractive to many of you but, that is okay. Because I am truly looking for my "SOUL MATE", not a one night stand.
Thanks for reading this far and I really do wish you all the best of luck and hope you find what you are looking for.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I believe I just described that also in the book I wrote above...lol
Always laugh and enjoy life; we are not promised tomorrow. If you have someone in your life that loves you, do not take that for granted; it is a true blessing.