I'm in an awesome place when it comes to life. I have a good paying job, a car that I enjoy, and an awesome group of true friends in my life. The only thing missing is a solid relationship with the right girl.
I have close friends that tell me that "any girl would be lucky to have you." Honestly, that's bull, because there are plenty of girls that aren't going to click with me. Besides, I don't just want ANY girl, I want the right girl. Girls always seem to ask me why I'm single, and I'm not sure on the answer. My best guess is that either I wasn't ready, or the right girl wasn't ready for me, so we'll see what happens here.
I don't like to sugar coat stuff so here's what I'm looking for:
I honestly want a girl who I find physically attractive and has an awesome personality. I want that girl that I can just be a dumb-ass and goofy around and her be like "you're so cute" and roll her eyes and walk away. I love having fun and I want a girl who can take crap but give it back as well. I need a girl in my life that I can think of as a best friend and talk to about anything.
I don't like games and I hate drama. I want a girl who wants me for me, and isn't afraid to let me know. I want a girl who isn't afraid to make the first move or to tell me how she really feels about me and not worrying about what's going to happen. The more interested a girl is in me, the more interested I am in her if everything else is clicking well. I want a girl to teach me what turns her on and what she enjoys about life. I want her to learn what turns me on and what I enjoy about life. I'm a normal guy, so I think sex is an important part of a relationship. I'm open minded and pretty straight-forward and laid back. I believe a relationship is based on honesty, trust, and communication.
Here's a little more about me:
I enjoy writing songs and poems and sing for fun. I am intelligent and am constantly learning something that I enjoy or something to improve my life in some way. I love to watch the Bears and Cubs but also enjoy watching the Bulls and Blackhawks. I love music. I like various rock, hip-hop and some dance and pop music. Bands that I have been listening to lately include A Day To Remember, Brokencyde, Breaking Benjamin, Saosin, Armor For Sleep, New Found Glory, Forever the Sickest Kids, Valencia and many others.
I am looking to meet some new people and see where it goes from there. I believe every experience brings something to the table and when things don't work out between two people who barely know each other, it's no big deal because there are plenty more people out there to meet. Eventually the right person will come along and it'll be better than what was imagined.
If you like what you read and see, and want to get to know me, don't be afraid to shoot me a message. If I don't respond, don't take it personal, it could be for a number of reasons unknown. If it doesn't work, move on. If it seems to work, make it work better.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I'd like to go out to a place to get to know each other. If the weather is nice, taking a walk around a lake or a park and just talking. Dinner is cool, but I like to have fun, so doing something fun like snow tubing, bowling, or mini-golf would be cool. I'm up for new things and new ideas.