If you expect a long drawn out letter praising your beauty, smarts, hobbies..it won't happen in a first letter ..if you expect that..you are only looking for the diva ego..most of you will delete the letter unread..so why should ANY guy write a nice long letter?..maybe on the third letter..THAT you can expect from guys if you are serious..This is the point you are at in your life..with your heart..with your thoughts..looking for that magic..that something...If I speak to your heart in unspoken thoughts and you feel a connection reach out to my heart the way my smile will reach out to you..and we'll discover..another... then you can expect a long letter..to me a demand for a long ego praising letter is like you want a man to "buy" your attention..
..You don't need another lover..you need someone who will love your heart..and your thoughts..Someone who is honest, thoughtful, loving, FAITHFUL, and takes the garbage out without being told to..what are the things that make my heart stand out are the things you should be interested in..not for one date..not for one dinner...but for one thing..forever......I could make you remember.... how to smile, laugh like a child, enjoy ice cream, look forward to the next day, remember what friendship is, long to hold hands, snuggle under the covers, shelter your heart, forget how to cry, and feel safe again...in return I expect your warm words, your tender heart, your commitment to truth and respect, your open heart and your faithfulness..Maybe I'm asking too much..but I just want a great friendship that could develop into something wonderful..must love dogs..even the ones who wag their tails...and...the simple things that make love and life possible..
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
...You want to discover someone you go where it's public, you can both relax, actually hear each other, actually pay attention to the other and maybe with any luck, you don't fall off the bridge into the river. after all you want to see how that first impression is, no pressure, a couple of minutes to chat and smile..and if it doesn't happen.. you go separate ways and shake hands..or you plan for something further down the road...a date...but not a date...a harry met sally kind of date...