Im 22 yrs old with a 27 yrs old mentality. i am a Gemini and yes i do have both sides to me. i enjoy new experiences and love meeting new people. i just moved to IL and signed up for this to meet new people in my area to show me what this state is really about. I wanna know what it feels like to be catered to, and i wont settle for less. meaning a true gentleman or lady of class. yes i go both ways. unfortunately they dont give you the option to pick both sex on your profile. open doors, pulls out the seat, offers to pay the little things like gas (no matter how much it is), something to drink out of the gas station, or here is a good one i found is hard for some men, going into the store and buying a box of tampons because i had a visitor last minute :)) lol ladies got it down pack. lol have to make eye contact and be able to converse with genuine interest. little things mean a lot to me, in a sense they are just as important as the big things and hold just as much priority. i hate to ask for any of those things and believe me the list goes on but im sure you catch my drift. i want someone that will want to be with me for my mind and mentality and not just my looks. i hate that every time im around someone and all i see is lust in their eyes and no genuine interest. passion can come with me but only after you have caught my interest mentally. im not a picky person and have interest in a lot of things. i love to talk, being the sign of communication but you have to spark my interest first. ive always wanted to be with a fem before but never was able to find someone that is genuine and has some brains minus the headache attitude and huge ego, but who knows, maybe POF will be the answer to my set back. lol well there is so much more to know about me so send a message my way if ur feelin a little curious :))
Im also in the process of fighting a stomach disease that is too close to leading to cancer. i dont work because im not able to. i rely on a lousy ssi check each month and have a lot of time on my hands aside from my doctors appointments and im currently out of school until i can show more improvement. hopefully by the time jan comes around ill be able to get back into the hang of things. i hope my situation doesnt put a damper on things and if it does, well...simply fucck off. im not the women for you. ;))
Also cant stand it when you keep your messages short n simple. i choose to not write everything about me on here so it will give the ppl that suck at holding a convo more of a chance. but if im taking my time out to type more then a few words then i expect the same. if you cant talk on here then how do you expect things to go in person??
i feel the need to update this and specify a few more things. i can NOT stand dogs. i will only rarely put up with a few if they are beyond well trained. meaning, no jumping on me, licking me, sitting on the couch next to me or in the bed for that matter, obviously has to be house trained and not any bigger then up to my knee. i especially cant stand shepards, labs, and bull dogs. i dont want to have to interact with it. as long as it can keep its distance and your place is well maintained on the dog hair and drool plus the smell i will be ok. hate to brake it to all you dog lovers that have sent a message my way, but as soon as i see that pic with you laying on the floor with your mutt, complete turn off and i prob wont reply :/....
^^^***Common sense for the Unintelligent..if you dont like what MY profile has to say ABOUT ME then MOVE AROUND. im not on here to please anyone that doesnt like what i have to say. so sending me messages like this,**
EXAMPLE directly out the inbox:
Subjesct: so no dogs but you want a monkey??
Are you crazy or just retarded??
This is nonsense I'm writing because you have some loose butthole phaggytime restriction on message length. The zinger up there is whaat I really want you to read ^^^^^^^
SO PLEASEEE if you have any thoughts along the lines of what this assshole had to say, then save me the childish message and waste of time, not interested in little boys. thanks.****
lmao juss got another crazy deranged message,
First I hope you get really fat someday, and the whilst you are becoming fatter small cuddley animals are dwarn to you for warmth, and in turn you are drawn to them for their love and support. Eventually, your love for all of your animals will only be surpassed by your inability to care for them. Thus, resulting in you opening a small time petting zoo, "charity organization", enabling you to commercialize.-while still becoming obese and obtaining more of pets. You will love grooming your alpaca. Smiling at your chinchilla mountain. Until one day while eating Wendy's, (Baconater with chili and fries), a mentally deranged capybara gets so confused by the red logos and your precious grizzle that it gnaws your face off and it's replaced with skin from your ass.
WHAT IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE? i really dont know what to say to that? does my profile really piss people off that much? where do people come up with shiit like this?
buttt then again, the normal genuine people i have talked to wouldnt understand either. guess its a crazies thing i will never understand. lmao. oooh weee...
lol i find myself updating this more and more just from the massages ive already got and dont feel like replying to. one thing i have been making clear to anyone that wants to persue me, i travel. alot. and mostly by car and occasionally flying here and there, but mostly i drive back and forth between chicago il and des moines ia. i have family in 4 dif cities along the way and often stop and vist them as i go about my business. so if you are serious about getting to know me, then you have to be up to drive at least 2 hrs to see me and i will meet you half way.
and another thing, if i dont reply its A) bc im afk or just plain busy or B) im not interested and just dont feel like wasting my time. dont blow my inbox up with ? as to why u havent herd from me. im not entitled to reply back to every message that comes my way... didnt think i needed to make this one clear but apparently some ppl dont get the memo...
have zero tolerance to bullshiit and stupidity and very blunt, straight forward, dont beat around the bush type of person. im a realist and refuse to live in a fantasy world.
can be the nicest person you ever did encounter or the biggest biiitch you wish you never met.
:))) I ABSOLUTELY LOVEEEEEE MONKEYS!! it is so a personal mission to get one that is trained and juss the right age and breed. They are my favorite animal and I juss HAVE to have one. Lol also I'm a really big fan of snakes. Used to have two :))
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Something that has alot of thought put into it. Im ok with surprises but nothing extreme that may threaten my life. :))