PSA. Please visit the dentist. If you have plaque or gum disease, do you think anyone wants to be intimate with you?
Please read my profile. If you don't share a picture here, don't message me. If I didn't have a picture, you wouldn't message me. If you message once every two weeks once I've responded to you. I'm not interested. You either don't have time, are seeing someone or are not interested yourself. Don't waste my time and I won't waste yours.
Not looking for:
-A man with more "girlfriends" than myself.
-Someone who can't put their phone down.
-A man that checks out chicks when we are out together. If you are not interested in who you are WITH, don't go out with them. If you are interested in EVERYONE, go out with your boyfriends.
Looking for a honest, genuine gentleman with integrity, one that I can respect.
My life is full, satisfying, challenging and rewarding. Not looking to fill down time, looking to create a life with someone I can't live without. Those who are only available on alternating weekends, I'll pass. I did the part time thing for eight years. I'll also pass on anything long distance as that equates to part time as well. I'm ready for the real deal. Wish that could be ordered off a menu.
Everyone is in their own place and time and chemistry is a huge challenge to find. Best wishes in your search! Be HONEST! The truth will come out.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Coffee shops are a great start. Stimulating conversation is always pleasant....
I do not climb 14'ers, run marathons, ski or board.
*Nice guys do NOT finish last. We all like nice guys. If you are finishing last, there is a reason. If you are put in the friend zone, its not because you are too nice, its because there is not an attraction, physically, mentally, emotionally, financially. There IS a reason and its not because of your nice factor ;) Most people can appreciate and respect those who are nice. Doesn't mean you want to date them, right?
We all have a different idea of what is attractive to us.
Invest in yourself, visit the dentist for clean teeth, bleach is inexpensive as well. Invisalign, it is invisible.
I'd have to say MOST men who message me have entered their age incorrectly. It is hilariously mysterious how often that accidently happens. Everyone thinks they look and act younger than their age, however, we are all ageing. I'd like to meet someone who doesn't feel the need to portray themselves as ten years younger and doesn't behave like a teenager. My kids are way past the teenage years, however, men think women would find that trait attractive. I'd not date a person who behaved like a child, intentionally. If you want to date someone younger, say so, don't lie about your age. Just be honest.