Xotyc: Spirit, Soul, Passion, Purpose...
Non-Smoker with Athletic body type
Miami beach, Christ Church
53 year old Male, 5' 11" (180cm), Christian - other
Mixed Race, Scorpio
Xotyc wants to find someone to marry.
Some college
Business Development

August 2005

I am Seeking a Woman For Long Term
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry Not Completed
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Undecided/Open
Marital Status Divorced Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Black Eye Color Hazel
Do you have a car? Prefer Not To Say Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 3 years How ambitious are you? Very Ambitious
Pets No Pets  

About Me
I'm a passionate and spiritual man who knows what he wants in life and is prepared to work hard to achieve it... a man who appreciates the value of a good woman... a man who knows how to exceed a woman's expectations in every sphere of human existence, be it social graces, spiritual awareness and depth, intellectual prowess, financial competence or physical intimacy, which for me draws heavily on my spiritual being...

Life's too short to bury oneself completely in work... to do so is to miss the joy of living, whether it's climbing a hill with the one you love and enjoying the resulting view unimpeded... or chasing each other through the surf on a deserted beach at dusk... or simply curling up on a thick rug to watch a romantic movie on a beautiful rainy night... no, life is not going to pass me by... I'll build my business, yes, but I will place equal importance on building a relationship that lasts... and as always, everthing I do is done with spirit, soul, passion and purpose...

ps. Oh, and for those ladies who want to know specifics on the "have children" thing, its one child, a gorgeous 10-year-old girl (turns 11 on New Year's Eve/Old Year's Night and therefore thinks she was born to party!), who lives with me officially but spends some weekends with her mother during the school terms and a week or more during vacation periods.

ps2. Yes, there really is a place in Barbados called Miami Beach... and yes that IS a "fairly" recent photo - October 2005 @ Lake George New York... but honestly, it might have well been taken yesterday.

Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I believe that what you do on a first date should be totally inspired by your mental, spiritual and physical reaction to the person you've just met and are going out with... it shouldn't be some pre-scripted blueprint laid out on here... it should be spontaneous, unexpected, exciting, but real... that just means taking the time to learn enough about your date to incorporate things into the experience for her, that are dear to her heart... thereby showing that you truly appreciate and want to get to know the woman within, and are not just playing homage to a beautiful face and bod with expensive gifts and fancy talk, in hopes of scoring sexual intimacy... besides, real men know that mental and spiritual intimacy and interraction with a woman lays a genuinely rich foundation that ultimately makes any physical intimacy in the future ten times more meaningful and pleasureable... but hey, that's just my opinion...

a first date with me? One word... exhilarating.

Mail Settings
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