I am NOT currently seeking anything from the internet =0
MAYBE friends .. but not a relationship .. I'm not interested in dating anyone right now
Thanks ..ps this profile is also outdated
It’s easier for me to break it down like this.
R E S P E C T
First if you drink to the point of intoxication 3 nights a week or your “greatest time” story is about the kegger you and your 5 buddies had last weekend only because it beats out the other story about the kegger you guys had the weekend before that… then you’re a cool guy and it would be alright running into you at a party once in a while.
Ok and then if your ideas of wake n bake don’t have biscuits involved somehow... You’re a great friend to have but I’m not interested in dating you. Motivation and moving forward is key for me right now and I don’t need anyone lying around the couch watching cartoons for an hour in his boxers.
Then if you think you are a “gansta” listen to rap music involved with a thug’s life. I’m sorry we just don’t have anything in common.
Ok I know here is where I tell you about me.
My idea of chillin is with friends around a bon fire with the kids running around the guys having a few beers and the women gossiping about the most recent affair in town.
I have a degree in nursing. I take that seriously. Would you want to see your nurse sloshed the night before now hung over heading towards you with a needle? I wouldn’t either.
Ok so back to me. I follow the “I treat others the way I would want to be treated.” Rule most of the time. If you THINK I act like I am better than you then it’s your subconscious is telling you that I am. That’s not me … that is you.
I am a social, family person. I like to have company and I like to play games and be active. It is not unusual for me and a friend (hopefully you) to whip out a game play real quick because we have 30 minutes to spare or hanging out talking. I also like going out for occasional friend’s birthday party, girl night out, or there is a band you want to see in town. I’m down! I think going out 2-3 times a month is a comfortable middle for me. I don’t get bored at home and I don’t feel like I can’t ever relax.
I like going out doing new things meeting new people. I am outgoing, loud, and meet new people easily. Do I want to go out every Friday and Saturday night? NO
Well if you are still reading I'm 33 years old I have a 14 year old daughter... My family especially the women are pretty close. Usually my Mom, sister and I take the 4 girls on vacations throughout the year. I have a dog that sleeps on the bed so if you ever get too .. expect to share. I also have fish and inspire to have a pond someday in the yard. I smoke often and drink occasionally. I like to do outdoor things and I'm pretty spontanoues. I like to play board and card games. Also bags and ladderball outside games. I'm a competitive person. I've had a crazy life. I've done everything from work at a courthouse to manage a band, be a nurse. I also talk alot and I'm pretty outgoing. I'm openminded and honest. I'm a little anal. I like things done now and done right (my way). I don't like people who are pushy, rude , and full of drama. My ex's usual complaints are that I snore (not in that cute way either) and that I "lay all over them" when we sleep...lol I have to laugh because it's true what can I say! I find the company of others stimulating and enjoy meeting people. I feel comfortable talking about myself, and others see me as socially competent.
I acknowledge and accept my weaknesses. I rarely regret things I've done in the past and am not embarrassed easily.
What sets me apart from most people is the high standards that I set for myself. People come to me for advice and generally think of me as someone with leader-like qualities.
I value the company of family-members and domestic life. I enjoy spending time with my daughter. I prefer to entertain guests at home. I also have like to do family activities, muesums, zoos, traveling.
I have a good awareness of my own emotions. I can be emotionally needy at times. I know because Ron told me. Speaking of Ron I should just mention that I am friends with him and he is my daughers father ..so Get over it were not together anymore. We havent been together in 14 years. If you lack confidence or confuse it with agressiveness the next profile is just a click away.I don't have any room in my life for violence, immaturity or drama.
My tendency to be open-minded can have advantages and disadvantages. My openness makes it easier for me to find a new way to solve the problem. However I may be bored easily.
I know how to balance work and play. My colleagues and friends consider me reliable and fun to be around. I get along with most people.
OK now that all of that is over I would just like to say that there is no PERFECT man out there. Are you kidding? I also don't think that meeting someone to date is an internet option but then again, I never planned on falling in love any other time before either. It just always happened to me and believe me it wasn't because they were the "perfect man"! Love is loving someone when you KNOW their imperfections and love them anyway!
If you're down with hanging out, meeting up whatever just to meet a new person with no expections except to add a person to the "people I know" list then drop me a line.
If you are even THINKING of hitting on me ask yourself "Are you someone I can respect"
I don't know ... honestly .. i'm tired enough to say it .... i wish that people would cut through the bullsh*t.. i have baggage you have baggage we have all baggage .. wouldn't be nice just to say .. i want to meet someone who can be my friend .. who i enjoy doing stuff with who won't be a whore or pothead and not be all weird about the pressure of sex .. i don't have sex with my friends .. and if you want to have sex with me and the connection is there then it will happen naturally and no one has to worry about it. It goes along with my whole "I never meant to fall in love" but it happened anyway. Well my other theory is currently "how will I know if there is a connection if I don't meet them." So the moral of the story is .. I need to meet some friends and if I talk to you don't assume I want to get in your pants or that you are getting into mine!
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
If you smoke or drink socially cool, party animals need not bother writing .. unless you're already one of my best buds lol
I would probably be most satisfied in a romantic relationship with someone who also values domestic life.
As far as looks I don't know why but I think that guys with just a mustache are creepy and not that I am shallow (which I am a little bit) but generally "big" guys don't have the energy to keep up with me and don't live active lives (hince they are huge)Don't send me hate mail I said generally and if you don't fit in that catergory then feel free to drop a line.
Ok new pet peeve .. well old one but you guys don't know it yet .. don't put in your email hey baby, babe, hun, beautiful, or any of that sh*t.. drives me nuts .. my name is Wendy not hunny sugar or whatever else you might think of. You don't know me well enough to do that and chances are you won't get to