I am friendly, smart, well spoken, and patient. I am great with kids and looking to start a family in the near future. I tend to work on several projects at once- for a while I wanted to start a non-profit organization but it kinda stalled out. I am now working at an electrical laboratory trying to make fantastic electrical experiments successful. I work as an aerospace technician and have a wide array of skills. Politically I am right wing with libertarian tendencies. I love solving problems, writing, reading, gaming, outdoorsy stuff, roller coasters, and most geeky stuff. I feel a strong connection to Good, and think that there is definite Good and Evil, and that each of us is born with an innate ability to determine one from the other. I am blunt, outspoken, and refuse to follow certain social "norms" like political correctness. When I make up my mind I often go with it, though I am open to intelligent debate and dispute. I tend to take a leadership role and I would appreciate a strong, assertive woman who can make a great co-pilot in life-- someone able to take the reigns if I become indisposed, able to bring a second point of view to the situation and insists on being heard out, but won't fight me on every decision she doesn't agree with. I am looking for someone to share my life with.
Some of my pluses are that I have a very strong love for my fellow man, a giving nature, the flexibility to change my mind when needed, great leadership capacity, and an almost fearless ability to do what needs to be done in any emergency or urgent situation without hesitation.
I hope to start a family some day- bigger the better. I have been told on countless occasions that I would make a wonderful father.
I heartily believe in being absolutely honest- which sometimes gets me in trouble. I also have an open-book attitude towards answering and asking questions-- I don't get offended easily and I appreciate it when women ask deep or personal questions.
I am looking for someone that is caring, brainy, and good (in a good vs evil kind of way). A love for children, strong maternal instincts, a bit geeky, and a high libido are all strong pluses. A conservative, God-fearing, sci-fi loving, high libido gamer would be perfect. She must also be neat and tidy, not necessarily a neat freak, but defiantly someone who wants and needs to live in a clean environment. I am very flexible and understanding- and so someone doesn't have to be "perfectly" match these attributes in order for me to become romantically interested in them.
I also like people with good self confidence. After wasting too much time in previous relationships trying to fix people I have learned that people rarely change and that a person can't raise someone else's self image. I would take a highly confident pig over a self loathing swan any day.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
A great first date is one where I meet someone that I want to meet again, and that wants to meet me again. I prefer quiet locations such as coffee someplace, hole in the wall bar, or a long walk.