"Life belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams" - Ari Vatanen
If I send a short message or ask how your are tonight it is because I am trying to start a conversation not develop a pen pal. Even if that conversation has long pauses lol.
Games are for children, adventures are better!
Just read it ya might get a laugh. Fair warning - If you can't take this with a grain of salt, we probably will not get along. lol Bonus at the end if you get that far!!
I'm the guy everyone warned you about. I'm Fat, lazy bald and hung like a Gnat...or at least I think I am It's been a while since I have seen or could reach.I have hair on my body that makes me think I'm related to Bigfoot. I have 10 toes but only 4 of them are on my left foot. I am unemployable and all major government agencies have a file on me. I'm the Robin Hood that forgot to give to the poor and spent it all on Beef Jerky and malt liquor(hence my rugged physic). I do enough drugs to make Charlie Sheen jealous............LMAO wow I could really go on and on but I'm sure that was too far already lol. If your still with me as you can see I have a good but sometimes twisted sense of humor. People around me laugh all the time, sometimes at me, with me or because of me but they are laughing lol.
The truth is I'm the guy you "friend zoned" years ago and later realized your mistake and wished you hadn't
Hello, I’m still fairly new to the Raleigh area originally from Central NY. I don’t really know anyone here except family. Family is very important to me but I still need more. I’m always open to meeting people, there is something to be gained from every personal contact, from the smile in passing to the meaningful conversation there is always something exchanged or even left behind. I’m very laid back and easy going I’m very open minded and people tell me I’m easy to get along with many people tell me I’m the nicest person they know. I was raised to be a gentleman and am proud of that. As an adult I have lived in 3 states on the east coast and have traveled to all states on the east coast. I love driving sometimes with no destination as well as planned road trips I’m a strong willed goodhearted person. I have been told that I have an old soul, but then again they often say I look younger than I am as well. I feel young at heart so I go with the latter version lol. I don't feel that I am very photogenic and look much better in person lol. I work hard and so in turn play hard, well I used to anyway, Haven’t had much of a chance lately (we all have our pasts it is what makes us who we are today, and where we are going which is what is more important I think). However things recently took a change and I have never felt better in my life. Many things interest me I love all animals. I love nature, and any events that bring me under the sky or with nature. Hiking, camping, and sightseeing are some of the activities I enjoy while being outside. I love all sorts of sports; lacrosse is my favorite sport (SU and Rochester Rattlers) then college basketball (SU and MD). March Madness is important to me. I am a DJ, I love Music, to dance party and have a good time, although I am not a big drinker I do imbibe from time to time. As a DJ Music permeates me constantly, life is a rhythm, just dance. I can find fun in almost anything. I can be Adventurous and exciting or I can be calm and reserved, so an evening curled up to a movie or a low lit dinner are good by me too. In my opinion if it feels good do it.
Words I try to live by:
"Work like you don't need the money,
Love like you have never been hurt and,
Dance like no one is watching."
With all that being said there are a few things that I thought I would add. I am at a point in my life that I realize that the only thing that is consistent is change. However there are a few things in all of us I'm sure that will never change, in short I am who I am just as you are who you are. None of us are perfect we all have our quirks, Here are some of those for me. I am open minded and willing to hear anyone out about any topic as long as they understand that "agree to disagree" is an option to end. I respect your beliefs and opinion I hope you would do the same. As long as your not trying to shove them into my psyche were all good. I have many interests perhaps too many lol..I am a good cook but I hate to prep or clean after lol. I can be eclectic at times, I am into many of the "nerd" interests such as Star Wars, LOTR, Comic lore, I'm a Gamer I don't play all the time but I am well versed in the industry. I like alternative lifestyle cultures such as Goth and steam punk, tattoo, etc.... it's not all for me but its interesting. I love the Ren fest and would love to go is costume sometime. Halloween is awesome and I enjoy cos-play It's like theater without the stage lol. I love Electronic Dance Music it is a passion that I will turn into Something bigger than I have ever before! I am for the most part nocturnal and would like to find someone who also enjoys the night from time to time. That doesn't mean I only live at night I'm just not big on mornings lol... I'm not a big phone chatter for me a phone call should be get on state your business and get off lol. That's not to say I wont have short conversations. I do well in text based communications and much better face to face :-) Also most of my friends and the people I find a get along well with enjoy celebrating 4:20 now and again, as do I its my only vice really so you must be at least tolerant if not friendly. If your not sure if you are or not your probably not but google it just in case lol.
I think I said enough without really saying anything. Hope it piqued your curiosity :-) If your still with me, cool I know that was a lot. That is why I decided to stop there is so much more but that is better to learn in time. You all want Honesty There was a bit I have nothing to hide because I am who I am just like you I hope our weirdness' are compatible lol. If not I hope we can still find a connection in friendship, puff buddies are always welcome too lol. And if your still here and even slightly interested send me a message, I like strong and forward women :-P
Anyway I believe that’s if for now if you have any questions or would like to chat sometime drop me a line, Thanks for your time. MJM
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Been here a while but still feel new to the area, so this is like a clean slate for me I'm open to anything but I'm sure we can figure something out :-)