SthrnButtrfly: Sober N Sexy Seeking a Good, Honest Man
Smokes Occasionally with Big & Tall/BBW body type
Houston, Texas
55 year old Female, 5' 9" (175cm), New age
Caucasian, Pisces
SthrnButtrfly is looking for a relationship.
High school
Hopeless Romantic

Love my Friends!!!

I am Seeking a Man For Long Term
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Do you drink? No Do you want children? Undecided/Open
Marital Status Divorced Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Blond(e) Eye Color Brown
Do you have a car? No Do you have children? All my kids are over 18
Longest Relationship Over 6 years
Pets Cat  

About Me

~~~The Invitation~~~
(Don't let this scare you)

~~It doesn't interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for,
and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing.
~~It doesn't interest me how old you are...I want to know if you will risk looking a fool for love, for your dream, for the adventure of being alive.
~~It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon. I want to know if you have touched the center of your Own sorrow; if you have been opened by life's betrayels or have become shriveled and closed from FEAR of further pain. I want to know if you can sit with pain, mine or your own, without moving to hide or fade it or fix it.
~~I want to know if you can be with joy, mine or your own; if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful, to be realistic, to remember the limitations of being human.
~~It doesn't interest me if the story your telling me is true. I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself; if you can bear the accusation of betrayel and not betray your own soul; if you can be faithless and therefore be trustworthy.
~~I want to know if you can live with failure, yours or mine, and still stand on the edge of a lake and shout to the silver of the full moon "Yes!"
~~It doesn't interest me to know where you live or how much money you have; I want to know if you can get up, after a night of grief and despair, weary and bruised to the bone, and do what needs to be done to feed the children...
~~It doesn't interest me who you know or how you came to be here. I want to know if you will stand in the center of the fire w/me and not shrink back.
~~It doesn't interest me where you can be alone with yourself, but if you truly like the company you may keep in the empty moments.

Oriah Mountain Dreamer

~~On a lighter note~~

I am a tall, voluptous, sexy woman and comfortable with who I am today. If your seeking athletic and slender in this 48 yr old, then your in the wrong age category..LOL Seriously, it does get frustrating when men want to meet you and then after photos, etc. they say, Oh your not what I thot...duh, guys, thats why we send RECENT photos. I am NOT huge, nor am I skinny mini..I AM ME. And damn, what a SEXY woman.

My smile and my legs are a few of my best assets; Definitely a smart azz sometimes...Enjoy all kinds of music from Blues to rock to hip hop. Don't do the club scene too much but am up for dancing anytime. I love sushi, BBQ, chinese, or home cooked meals.

I love children and animals. Am a proud parent of 3, all of whom are over 18 and living in the world on their own today. I do have a Siamese cat I rescued few months ago, shes another

I love getting "dolled up" for a night on the town! I am very fond of wearing sexy lingerie w/garters, stockings and high heels, although I am just as comfortable in my daisy duke shorts, bikini top & bare feet~~~which tells you that I love doing just about anything with Mother Nature...I love all types of fishing, camping, boating, etc.

I want a man who is:
~~~friendly, outgoing, and definitely romantic ~~~ self-confident and modest, someone I desire and I can admire, yet not arrogant or egotistical; A man who carries a positive attitude towards life on his shoulders. :*)

~~~He is honest; willing to explore new things; open-minded, old-fashioned at times and places a big value on trust, honesty, and loyalty~~knowing he found a one man woman!!!

WE both believe in a Higher Power; Our spirituality and/or religion is personnel between GOD and our family!!!!!!

COMMUNICATION is very IMPORTANT!!! We talk every DAY; if we get offended or feelings hurt, mood swings...we talk it out IMMEDIATELY and then LET GO and LET GOD. Know that communication is an important factor in a great relationship. As is honesty, open-mindedness, and the ability to agree to disagree.

If your into intimate encounters or head games or looking for a sexual fling, PLEASE save your time and mine and DON'T bother me.

I borrowed this off someones profile but its so true:
Love should never be measured by looks, material items or how thick someones wallet is. True love is measured from the inside out and is a person that stands by you no matter what. True love is being there for each other through thick and thin.

Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Depending on what our mood is after conversation and getting to know one another... Walk in the park, dinner, movies...I am flexible and easy to please in a sense. LOL

Mail Settings
To send a message to SthrnButtrfly you MUST meet the following criteria:
Age Between:30 and 58.
Lives in United States
Must not have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex.
Must not do drugs
Must not be married

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