Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I'm not looking to date.
Loads of Fish are looking at the site as a social networking site as opposed to a dateing site. This aproach could work for you too. Get out to meets, make a new circle of friends, male and female, and you may decide that one of them is worth considering as a partner. You can then take it as fast or slow as you like, why not try it?
Meet up for a natter at a PoF meet. There is one in Wakefield every week, and another one every month.