sillyman: looking for a fun and confident lady
Non-Smoker with Average body type
Calgary, Alberta
55 year old Male, 5' 10" (178cm), Non-religious
Caucasian, Taurus
sillyman anything.
Some college
massage therapist

I am Seeking a Woman For Long Term
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry Not Completed
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Undecided/Open
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? Socially
Hair Color Blond(e) Eye Color Other
Do you have a car? Prefer Not To Say Do you have children? No
Longest Relationship
Pets No Pets  

About Me
My spirit is fun loving and spontaneous. Being young at heart and having an old soul may seem diametrically opposed, maybe they are, I don't know. Looking for the in the bedroom and the in the parlour. I need it all, emotional, intellectual and sexual intimacy. Having a passion for what you are doing in life is important. If you know Myers/Briggs, I am an ENTP. In relationships, both giving and receiving are important to me. I am looking for someone who relishes change, who lives for the future and is not living in the past. Having children will depend on meetng the right lady. If I don't have children, thats okay too. Sharing the day to day stuff, creating good memories together is important to my happiness. Communication is important. 2 way communication! Talking and listing. I have my own home business, but am working to save up for my next business venture. Intelligence, competence and a dash of practicallity are attractive to me. Love science and technology. Strong willed women are a turn on, controlling women are not. I respect individuals and their boundaries, I also try to find out what an individuals boundaries are, and since, life has been easier. Friendship takes effort, but it's worth it. Understanding and helping meet someone else's needs makes me feel good inside. I like to repeat the things that make me feel good. I would like to settle down, but not settle for less. I need to feel safe with that someone special, feel safe to express my feelings and ideas. If you put alot of effort into a relationship and have high standards and are not afraid to at least see if there is some kind of chemistry between two people, then please, take that chance. People always tell other people what we want. But do we tell people really how we want it? How do we put our words into action or action into our words. If we are affectionate, are you showing your love by sitting at opposite ends of the room. Maybe it's how you gaze affectionatly across the room into ones eyes. I need to have cuddling for affection, snuggling up in the same chair together, being silent or caressing the skin. So if we all want affection, how do we, each individual, really describe affection to others so that they can know if those needs can be met or not. Do you need a little or a lot of affection physically or emotionally? I do, it is very important to connect and feel close every day.

Sex. I am all for it. It is really important, butt not the first thing I want to experience right away. I just want to know if I am sexually attracted to the other person. That attraction may not even be there initially, it could grow. Things are complicated. All I know is this. I want to lust for my woman. I want to take her sexual responses and trigger them, orgasm after orgasm. I get turned on by turning on my partner. Looking for changes is skin tone, changes in breathing, the subtle change in her moaning. I am sexually responsive. Always changing things. I only want one woman in my life at a time. I invest myself into only one relationship at a time. I will date a few women at the same time, just to find out their qualities. The women will know where I stand with each other because I will talk about what I am feeling or thinking, in regards to each other. I will not have sex with just anyone. I want first to know what the other person is all about, find out her good and ugly qualities, and most importantly, is there a similar level to comittment and understanding. If the two of us are at the same level of understanding, then sex happens sooner. The only thing I won't try sexually is anything that causes pain. Getting sexually turned on by letting a person sexually dominate you is different than physical or emotional pain during sex. Create sexual excitement within our own relationship. If it's dangerous or exciting sex you want, don't have it with other people, have sex together somewhere we might be caught or seen. Keep the excitement healthy between just the two of us. Intimately trusting someone else sexually is one of the greatest sexual turn ons. To me sex is wonderful, I just don't want it as a casual thing. Love sex soft. Raw. Hard. Slow. Sensual. Need to touch. Giving and receiving are both a must.

Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Go shoot some pool, catch a movie, Stage West, Yuk Yuk's or go for dinner. Nothing risky. I can't commit to marriage on the first date anyways. Just want to see if there could be a connection. Just spending time together is fun. The person I am with is more important than the activity that I am doing.

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