I'm enjoying all this rejection. Thank you! I HATE feeling desired! You're like "All I want is ..., tall, handsome, fit, with a Victorian house, a picket fence. financially secure, must love dogs sharing the bed, ...... I love this one- "Any nice guys left out there?"
I've heard so many stories of how the men on this site are dirtbags who are married or inconsiderate or stupid or liars. I am none of those things but you all turn up your noses because I'm not worthy of a try. Fine - be that way. Let me know how finding mister right is working out for you.
#1: Don't judge me if you've never met me or had a conversation! I may just be way different than your quick impression.
There's probably a 5-10 % chance of finding and being wanted by someone I meet here or anywhere else. I understand I got way fatter, way less attractive and 6ual chemistry I used to attract women with is not much of a factor to women anymore, even if I still emitted it, I believe in leaving a profile up. It's like buying one POWERBALL ticket each week. Odds of winning are almost nonexistent but you have to be in the game to win - whatever the odds. BTW, the reason I selected my personality type as YOGI is not in the Yoga sense, it is the Yogi Bear frame of mind.
.Here on POF My Lighthouse faithfully sweeps its beacon across the internet, emitting its rays of hope to guide her to me (in case you're out there). I understand we're all older and our needs are way different than in our days of youth, yet some remain the same. I find myself to be desirable by fewer women these days (my weight or lack of money - sorry I'm still paying for some kid stuff) , but maybe there is a special lady that will turn my I to WE. Does this sound too gay? Okay I can ride a Harley and do a "hunter's blow" out my nose while scratchin' my nuts with the other hand at seventy miles per hour.. Manly enough for ya?
My tastes in music: I like mellow to metal, Country is fine, too. But very little tolerance for hiphop or cRap! My car radio is usually set on classic rock from 70's thru 90s. I do 99% of my own car repairs. I could probably be potty-trained without too much effort.
Stuff I enjoy: Making wine , Writing fiction (except this) Restoring cars and bikes, The usual seasonal stuff - Walks in the dark (less distractions) , Hiking , Bike riding the Airline Trail, the corn maze, Pumpkin Spooktacular at Roger Williams Zoo, The Brooklyn and Woodstock Fairs, Whipple's Christmas Village, Car shows , going to the theater, Foliage photography rides, Picnics at Harkness, Camping in Cape Cod and Lake George, Niagara Falls, Howe Caverns,Old Montreal. Watching the waves of an offshore hurricane from the Watch Hill Light.
Not a sports nut.
Observations: Don't worry about avoiding temptation - as you get older temptation will avoid you! ; You're not old until your dreams are replaced by regrets. .
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I think the first meeting would be like drinks or afternoon coffee to see if there's any mutual chemistry.