So if you are guy looking for just a conquest, keep looking cuz it isn't going to happen here.
YES, I have photos, but due to the nature of my profession, I prefer to keep them private until I feel it is a venture worth taking.
In order to contact me, you must be a gentleman, you must be able to hold a half decent conversation that consists of other things besides yourself and your desire to meet me and you must not be superficial, with a history of treating everyone respectfully in every aspect and yes, I do mean everyone. Walk your talk, consistently.
I have no children and have no desire to be a mother, so please dont place that expectation on me, but if you have kids and are willing to keep their relationships separate from ours, great!
I am a hard worker during the week but I love to do almost anything on the weekends, especially in the summer, in my own convertible. I have lots of friends and some family that I see throughout the year but I am missing that special companionship in my life.
I am VERY financially secure and do not need someone to take care of me in any other way than mutual relationship. I enjoy upscale restaurants. I go to church on occasion, Thanksgiving, Christmas, Easter , not an overly religious person, just someone who believes in some of the basic teachings.
I am looking for love, I hope this is not the wrong place for me to find someone genuine. With my last relationship, I stepped out of my "type" and was happily surprised and stayed with him until his death, but with endings comes new beginnings, and I am now ready to move on!
It takes more than a few messages, a few phone calls and at least two meetings to really determine if there is a match, I am looking for soulful not lustful, so if you can't man up enough to engage in that type of interaction, you are not the man for me. I have met lots of men on here and have found the mid-life crisis is really prevalent with many of these men. To that type of man, all I have to say is "you had your day, move on and grow up!" I also get comments about how great I look, what great shape I am in, and how successful I have been (career and monetary), and because of those conversations I never agree to a second date. I am not interested in shallowness, learn to love me for who I am not for what I have acquired or how good I am going to look on your arm or in your car! There are too many men that want the "ideal" woman (cute, pretty, sexy, etc) but fail to realize they are not ideal themselves, double standards don't accumulate points with me either. If you have a history of meeting women online and or in person, and then dropping them without a face-to-face conversation, again, move on, because I am interested in a real man not an ostrich with his head stuck in the sand. If you are into serial dating (via the internet or in person), I am not the woman for you and you are definitely not the man for me!
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Before we meet for a date, I want to exchange a couple of written messages, have a couple of telephone conversations, and then let's meet at least twice, so that I can determine if you are the one that I am interested in pursuing a dating relationship. I am very open to stepping outside of my "type" of younger years because I have found that all that glitters is not necessarily gold, and within the rock, lies the true diamond!
I am new to Bedford and I am open to offers, not into the typical Tim Hortons, make it interesting!