Life is a barrel of laughs when you look back and realize how much dang fun I have had. I will not kid anyone that I have had an easy ride, but I guess truly it has been rich and full. I have mileage on this engine, but changed the oil and keep the maintenance up. I have had the pleasure of being in love, feeling loved, and being able to reciprocate in kind. I have had my heart broken, been cheated, lied, and betrayed and somehow have lived to discover the humanity or humility of life lessons and the value of who I want and deserve in my life.
I am an accumulation as I am sure you are of many adventures and for some, I think they would tell you I am one adventure after another. I am amazed at the beauty of this stellar planet and dazzled to have seen so much of this earth and in awe that I have barely scratched the treasures hidden waiting to be found on this earth. People will tell you that I am a storyteller of adventures, places, and the people that have shaped and define my character of me. In the past 20 years, my cameras have captured many moments so that others can perhaps understand why I am fascinated by simple essences of life. I would like my special person to be the model to fill my lenses.
Some of my friends find me Dr. Phil and I do have a fascination with relationships, and communication. The frustrating part is I am so much better working those issues out with my friends and learning more about me and the nice gals like you. How complex we are women and men, and how we seem to parallel each other as a species yet so many of us cannot conquer our passions to love. It is my experience that women and men do want to seek and need love, and need to have this experience in many ways to help complete our lives. Funny why are we passing in the night and rarely attempting to bump but faintly smile and keep on moving?
I am in rediscovery mode again, more cautious, but still have a child heart as that is who I am and have discovered that I rather not date, but enjoy the experience of your company and the complexity of that interaction and understanding that the sum of time should equal the beat of my heart and if it does not then my heart is telling me something I need to listen to, as I hope yours will too.
If dating at our age was simple why is it that I hear, feel, and have experienced how difficult reaching out to people can be. Is it not interesting, who we feel should be attracted to us and vice versa? I do know that dating now is a true paradigm change from when I was 20 something.
Perhaps you may or may not be attracted to the physical side of me and that is OK we are taught to see beauty from a distance. I have learned to seek the truth from inside as true beauty doesn't fade in the light, or age holds true in laughter, is intense in truth and integrity, passionate to enjoy every breath of each day, shares, and grows.
There are many of you that my eyes are attracted too, natural attraction has to be equally matched by a deep desire to have more, discover more of each other riches hidden for just that one person who has the courage to knock on my doors and ask the right questions to discover more of whom I am and vice-versa.
Are you still with me? Lar
I believe that most the people are probably bots are paid to be on this site. Sound disillusioned, no I like to laugh at what I cannot change.
The conversation that inspires more conversation.
Like to travel. Camp. Explore. Take uncomfortable risk…zip line, skydive… ect.
Have some vanity as I want to photo every last minute of that amazing relationship
I am trying to keep age group appropriate personal meetings.
However, a cute pair of heels will get extra points.
I believe flirting starts with a smile and continue through the day and night.
Being silly I took this POF seduction test check, I get a giggle from these test.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Have you ever dated anyone on POF? The answer for me no. I like people to be inquisitive and ask me the one off questions. Go for it I dare you.
This is a trick question! The question implies what would I do right? Well, I am a full blood man so the honest answer would be to find her dressed sexy in a dress and high heel sandals waiting for my camera to capture your beauty and charm. Now that is honest OK!.
Moving to the real question of: On a first date how appropriate of a person would you be to make the date fun exciting, comfortable, different or something on that line.
Well, first meeting someplace comfortable and nice weather dependant. The northwest is rich in possibilities and resettling back in the Spokane area has left me somewhat lost as the region has changed considerably. Don't be shy in suggesting ideas as I am up for most challenges and meeting. I do know that distance can tarnish the best wishes if planning hasn't been implemented properly especially as we all know traffic moves slower at times.
I think a good meeting is somewhere we can laugh, be ourselves and be as young as we feel anything else is just too high pressured for me.