I am only on this site because my best friend put me up to it. I am happy being a single woman but would be happy to share life with someone that is confident and self-efficient as I am. I am not a huge animal lover, and I am not a person who appreciates other peoples problems in large quantities... the world has it's own problems and it's a load that's bigger than yours (trust me on this). I have kids and would love to have more but only with someone who can prove themselves worthy of taking care of such a wonderful gift to human kind. I'm not pretending to sound like a feministic be-o-t-ch... or an over-picky self-absorbed person... just really want to meet someone that is real, and will not tolerate superficial negativity.