I have a few friends who are really enjoying their online dating experience so I am giving it a try as well. I am very busy with work, and also live in a smallish town, so I find it difficult to meet people. I have a great group of friends I hold close and dear, but I recognize that my girl isn't among them.
I am generous, maybe a little too giving... I am gentle, but I have a sharp edge (like any good knife should) and I know what I want. I hope that I will know it when I see it, but just in case, I'll put it out there to the universe:
I'm seeking a beautiful person (inside and out) to share things with. I like to look at beautiful things and I have a real soft spot for a gorgeous smile, and I am looking for a girl confident enough to show it off. She's a little on the petite side maybe, and she's gentle and kind and doesn't use the word "like" like a comma. She can also team up with me and run the show, she's not afraid to grab the wheel and she has an adventurous, maybe even wild side. She's laid back, and knows what time it is...
I'm not into religion, judgmental people or traditional ways of doing things. I love experimenting and sometimes make a big mess doing it- so I think my girl will need to be able to look past any initial chaos to the heart and soul of my world. It's a big warm place with space for everyone, and there's always music and laughter and lots of support. It's a great place, I'd really like to share it.
I think that should do for now. I am busy, as I mentioned, and I think I might be a little gun shy as well, so I hope that you confident girls will drop me a line.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I would like to do something fun like play pool and have a good beer or two.
I'm not great at this kind of thing... I would love it if someone came up with something for us to do, like those dating shows where a limo picks me up and then it picks you up and we go and have a hot air balloon ride, sumo wrestle and make our own sushi, and then get painted in chocolate or hit up an underground cave hottub...
I'm not all that old fashioned- I would like a girl that can communicate what she wants, too :)