I AM NOT FROM CALGARY OR ANY PLACE CLOSE. dO NOT SEND ME EMAILS IF YOU ARE FROM THERE AND THEN RUDELY BLOCK ME FROM REPLYING THAT I THANK YOU BUT TOO FAR. Get a grip people, it's hurtful and insensitive of you to do that kind of shit. Know who you are emailing BEFORE you do it. Unless of course you just want someone to talk to, I'm up for chatting with you if you are from where ever, but don't be rude. It's disgusting even in this online cyber world of anything goes.
I'm not interested in your one night stand offers, nor in a FWB, just be a decent human being and talk to me as a woman, not a potential sex object. Just totally am not interested in the one nighters anymore.
I'm just looking for something a bit more long term just being able to see someone for longer than a one niter. I have always prided myself on answering most everyone, and i fully intend to be polite at least. Not becuz I'm ignorant, just becuz I may be busy trying to live.
Ok so I make a friend or two, you either accept me as i say i am, or go along your way. So,I ask this, you advertise you want an intimate encounter, but you also have your mail settings as "must not be looking for an intimate enounter".Does anyone else find this contradictory? Decide which way you want it before you write!! So if I can't talk to you because you have written "cannot contact if's" on ALL types, and the message to me is "so and so does not wish to speak to you", then i can only think you dont know what it is you want. Simple. I'm off my soapbox. I promise you, you may be pissing off the one woman who may be it for you, but you will never know.
I DO NOT WISH TO BE HOUNDED, respect me and my time please!!! Honesty people, where in hell is the honesty these days. I don't care if you are looking for long term or a one night stand, be honest with yourself and the women you hope to lay. I would also like to clear things up. I am not a hooker, I do not wish to be treated as one. So if you are so desperate for friendship or a f*** etc to send a ton of messages to me in a few minutes, expecting me to drop what I am doing, only to accuse me of being all talk and no walk because I may not want to or may not be able to, then don't bother to message me in the first place, because I need my space and time. I know there are some wonderful guys out there that are genuine and honest in what they like and want, and I soooo appreciate that, but don't be pushy. It's not an endearing quality. Ok, i'm off my soapbox...:)again....
I like to read in my spare time. I also like to go to karaoke on occasion. I am a passionate person who is looking for a casual cuddle buddy which could lead to other more intimate pastimes. I'm basically country, I have the hat and boots (fire engine red boots and a black hat with white guns and red roses on it, so sweet), and that is what I enjoy listening to as well. I don't normally go for the head bangin' stuff, but there are a few artists I enjoy that aren't country.
My uniqueness....i'm a reverend. I am lovable, really, I just can't stand being pushed and begged and hounded. I still am human, I guess it's stupid to expect humane treatment?
P.S. If you are a cowboy, you have a better chance than most of getting my interest peaked. LOL and yes for those of you who think they need to critique my writing and spelling, i did that spelling on purpose, its called a PUN!!!
P.S.S.One more thing that has changed, it may not be the place, but i have noticed alot of men want kids. Im sorry, I cannot have children anymore. If that changes your views about me, Im sorry but that is the way it is.
One more thing, for those of you who like to debate if separated is still married and not available, I do say I'm separated, and not available for a marriage contract, it seems maybe contradictory to have my mail settings saying "must not be married". Well, it's not, to me separated is separated, married is still living with your wife and cheating on her. That's what I don't want. Thanks
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I'm really simple. Grab a hot drink and head to the local park, sit, watch the fountain and talk, get to know each other a bit. Then see what happens. Or drive to the river and sit, talk. KISS!!! No, not kissing, KISS (Keep It Simple Silly)