I am a 34 year old lesbian looking for a serious relationship. Some of my hobbies include spending time with my friends, going for walks, camping, going to the movies, listening to music, writing. I also like to spend time with my baby cousin, and my niece and nephew. I currently live with my brother and my niece and nephew. I just went back to school, it's been ten years since I was in university so it takes some getting used to. I'm pursuing a degree in Web Design and Animation. I can be shy but I also like to have a good time. It may take me a while to open up but once I do I can be rather out going. I'm a very romantic person, I care alot about my friends and family and I will always be there for them in a heart beat. In the past I have been asked to choose between my friends and my relationship, I believe in compromise, I believe a healthy relationship needs its boundaries. I am loyal to the end, I have been cheated on before and I would never ever put another person through that. I'm at the point in life where I want someone that I can trust and be completely honest and comfortable with and fall totally in love with. I do not believe in love at first sight, attraction at first sight of course; however, love needs to be nurtured and needs time to develop. I'm not looking for a one night stand or a friend with benefits; if you are more power to you but I'm not the one for you. Like what you've read and seen? Don't be scared, send me a message! Let's get to know each other.
Here is some of the music that I listen to: afi, all american rejects, alkaline trio, billy talent, breaking benjamin, disturbed, evanescence, fallout boy, finger eleven, Godsmack, Disturbed, Theory of a Deadman, Sarah McLachlan, Goo Goo Dolls, Kings of Leon, my chemical romance, panic!at the disco, nickelback, seether, system of a down, sum41, tool, nine inch nails, green day, cold play, katy perry, depeche mode, the cult, the cure, Johnny Cash, Lukas Rossi, Incubus, New Order, Blue October, Papa Roach, Paramore, Three Days Grace, Treble Charger, Staind, Linkin Park, P!nk, Sublime, Placebo.
I also have eleven tattoos and plan to get more, and I have multiple piercings as well. I don't believe in judging people, it's what's on the inside that matters the most to me. I can sometimes be a serious person but I definitely like to have fun. I have so much love to give and would like to be able to share that with children some day, eventually. Once you gain my faith and trust, you will have it until you break it. Depending on the circumstances I do believe in second chances, but not third fourth and fifth chances.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
For me, on a first date communication is key; therefore I would like to take a woman somewhere where we can talk and where we can both be comfortable. A neutral location is probably best, a nice quiet dinner at a restaurant where we can take our time and get to know each other. I wouldn't take a first date to a movie, because I believe a first date is about getting to know someone and it's a bit difficult to talk in a movie. If the dinner went well, after that maybe a nice walk in a park or on a beach, weather permitting. Of course I can't completely describe the date because I would like to take into account the other womans thoughts and feelings as well, compromise works best. I can be a little shy but with the right person that all passes shortly. Kissing on the first date? Again that can't be up to me entirely, it has to be mutual but I am definitely an affectionate person, I like to hold hands and cuddle. I would at least like to end the date with a hug if it feels right.