I am after someone a bit like myself, who in public and private can stand their ground. I learned things about life as I watched, listened and took it all in, and what life showed me was nothing I really thought it was or could be. I was reared in a male value dominated world, where female sexuality was subordinated to male needs, which I assumed was just how it was. It was lie, designed to make any relationship full of friction, as one way relationships, tends to exnclude the other person in the quest for the male holy grail of pleasure itself. It was rude awakening when the penny dropped, that discoverd in the bigger picture I was somewhat insignificant, as like any male my desires were as easily dealt with as a child is when they are given sweets.
My role it seemed was to add something and that something was both time and effort in making sure the female always got to where she instinctively felt was her rightful realm, which was and is far from straightforward, when they too have swallowed the male value nonsense and in general.
The scoial construct is we live in the age of the individual, who is taught to learn about almost everything apart from themselves, and normally from the perspective of “I want”. So many women go for family, where unconditional love is the process, paying attention to detail, giving what they can, and eventually comming to the opinionof feeling its not always enough somehow. But regardless, they never give up on their offspring, who have taught them lessons in giving, which can be one of the most psychologically rewarding feelings possible. This is counteracted emotions are often shredded but nevertheless they do what they can and plod on regardless, which is what unconditional love is anyway. So there is relationship between unconditional love and time spent being being involved.
So a male’s real place is to help, assist, add to the quality and quantity required for perceived female needs. Giving has its rewards when its appreciated, and making woman happy and fulfilled is possibly the most gratifying psychological experience a male can experience. When fulfilled it does not matter where one is, how rich one is, or social position in the community, as the male feels on top of the world. Female are generally more tactile, more discriminating when it comes to food and almost everything else. Nature's game, was not easy to accept at all, as it puts the needs of anothers first. I love being loved, and love giving love more than anything else in life and everything else was in some way not so relevant.
So please get in touch, especially if you are fiercely independent, have a sharp mind, sharp wit, and a sharp tongue to deliver it all with.
If you have nothing to loose, then obviously, you have everything to gain